Left or right ring finger?

@sishy7 (27167)
Australia
May 17, 2016 4:27am CST
# 22 The wedding picture shows the couple wear their wedding rings on the right hand finger. (By the way, I didn't steal anyone's picture - it's from a photo I took years ago of a friend's wedding that I attended) And looking at my own wedding ring, I realize I've always worn it on my left ring finger. I thought that would always be the way it was... But I guess I was wrong as some people do wear their wedding rings on the right finger. I'm not sure if it's just based on the traditions and backgrounds of the couples. Hey, I don't even know what reason exactly that I wear mine on the left finger except to just follow what everyone else does or so I thought... I did hear about one explanation that I like on wearing it on the left ring finger. It came from the belief that a vein ran directly from the fourth finger on the left hand to the heart, so it's like a direct hand-heart connection. That belief may not even correct according to medical science, but hey, I think it's a romantic reason for wedding ring to be worn on the ring finger of the left hand...
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
17 May 16
I don't even wear mine :) I think I only wore my wedding ring for a year or two. It's painful to my fingers, especially when you shake hands. Besides, I'm not really used to any kind of jewelry.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
17 May 16
oh, could it be that the ring size is too small? Anyway, my husband does not wear his either... he works with his hands a lot and he's too afraid of ruining it, or worse, losing it.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
17 May 16
@sishy7 Justly plainly not used to wearing jewelry :)
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
18 May 16
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
22 May 16
I want to put the ring in my love one's left ring finger when we will meet. It will show how much I love her
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
22 May 16
that's beautiful... I hope you'll find her soon...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
23 May 16
@Yar_Joey Ah, I wish you and HA the very best then...
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
22 May 16
@sishy7 I already have her in my life, my friend. She is HA, the love of my life.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
17 May 16
I just prefer it on my non dominant hand so it gets caught on less
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
18 May 16
Exactly! I'm right-handed and I prefer to wear rings, a watch, or bracelets on my left hand...
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• Centralia, Missouri
18 May 16
@sishy7 they seem to get in the way when worn on the dominant hand
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
18 May 16
My friend wears hers on the right and her husband on the left. Balance.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
18 May 16
yes, I read how couples do it that way too...
@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
17 May 16
Have always known couples wearing on their.left
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
17 May 16
I've read some Chinese and also Muslim cultures may wear it on the right finger too...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
18 May 16
@Lucky15 No, I think they do intend to wear it on the right finger...
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
17 May 16
@sishy7 is there a.mistake there or no?
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
24 May 16
Everyone I know wears it on the left hand but maybe there's a different tradition going on in that pic.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
28 May 16
@MarymargII I heard how some cultures also consider the right hand as a more 'polite' hand than the left hand...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
24 May 16
Yes, they definitely followed a different tradition...
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
24 May 16
@sishy7 Hope it's lucky!
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Mar 17
I agree with you. I also think that the wedding ring shall be worn on the left ring finger since it connects to the heart.
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Mar 17
@sishy7 Oh... I made a mistake. You can tell how much I want to respond to your discussions
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
13 Mar 17
@youless Hey, you didn't make any mistake there... If anything, you reminded me that I should perhaps do a new discussion soon...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
13 Mar 17
Hmm, you told me about the left ring finger and heart connection already back in June... But hey, I appreciate you stopping by again...
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
10 Jun 16
I always wear my wedding ring on my left hand because i have seen married couples have them on their left fingers that's why . But i like that romantic explanation you know .
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
10 Jun 16
@sishy7 I guess it's a tradition .
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
10 Jun 16
I got few responses saying they wear it on the right hand and some of them are from the Philippines - I wonder if that's just a tradition in certain regions.
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• Williamsburg, Virginia
17 May 16
To my knowledge it is worn on the left finger. That's all I have seen.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
17 May 16
yes, for the longest time that's all I had seen too... now I've seen it worn on the right ring finger as well.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
17 May 16
@taramarie39 may not be all a change... in some cultures it may have always been the way to wear it on the right finger...
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• Williamsburg, Virginia
17 May 16
@sishy7 I wonder why the change.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
22 May 16
The left is traditional in the UK. Seems to be the right in Germany. Not sure why the difference. Maybe to do with the hand used to change gear in a stick-shift car...?
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
22 May 16
you're so off, I don't buy that explanation... I've shifted with my right and my left hand, but my ring have always stayed on my left finger...
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
22 May 16
@pgntwo the direct left hand ring finger to heart connection is the reason I like best...
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
22 May 16
@sishy7 Just trying to ring the changes... . People always shake hands with the right, could that be a reason? It's a mystery.
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@sabashekh (1218)
• Bhopal, India
17 May 16
The ring goes in left hand :) there's a special reason behind it .... But all have different beliefs and rituals so it goes in that page :)
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
17 May 16
do you know what the special reason would be?
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
18 May 16
@sabashekh Ooh... the same reason that I've heard before too...
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@sabashekh (1218)
• Bhopal, India
17 May 16
@sishy7 yeah the left finger is connected to heart *_* ....
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
20 Jun 16
@sishy7 the thing about the vein is true .That's what we always thought anyway.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
20 Jun 16
whether or not it's backed up scientifically, I heard both ways, yes and no... oh well, I still like to believe it's true anyway...
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• India
20 Jun 16
@sishy7 Me too
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@EyeSky (192)
14 Jun 16
hahahaha!!!! DEFINITELY, THAT'S BEAUTIFUL DEFENSE OF YOURS! I LIKE YOUR EXPLANATION! it is indeed good, to put your ring of love on the left because of the heart is on the left to beat. i did also on my left my rings but im not married yet. im only having my id ring and classring. one day, my Pastor said, i should not wear my engagement ring on my left finger. i told him it is not an engagement ring. it is an id ring that keeps on turning down that makes it look like an engagement ring at the back or other side of my id ring. eventhough i explained to him that it is not on my right finger and not an engagement ring, he still defended because it might look like im engaged and that i dont have to do it so someone will come near me. heheheh....
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
14 Jun 16
He he... he's trying to hook you up with someone...
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@EyeSky (192)
14 Jun 16
@sishy7 ;D hihihiih.... you're very funny.... Dear friend, honestly, he prayed for that someone will come. but nobody yet comes. ;'.)
@syeow1 (5136)
• India
11 Mar 17
We did not wear rings.so sorry no guess
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Mar 17
No problem at all...
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@syeow1 (5136)
• India
12 Mar 17
@sishy7 thanks
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@much2say (56053)
• Los Angeles, California
24 May 16
It's on my left too - and I heard that very same explanation as well. And like you said, we just do that because everyone else does that. I am a lefty and do everything with my hands, so the ring actually stays out of the way just where it is (by the way, I'm really not a "ring" person - so this works out well).
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@much2say (56053)
• Los Angeles, California
25 May 16
@sishy7 It's been so long since I've worn a watch . . . I forgot which side I put it on!!
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
25 May 16
I'm right-handed and when I wear any kind of jewelry or a watch, I put them on my left hand
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
27 May 16
Me and my girlfriend wears the couple and promises ring on the right hands.. and on the wedding we will also wear it on the right hand
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
27 May 16
this seems like a Filipino culture, am I right or wrong?
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
27 May 16
@sishy7 Yep you're right
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@Ishani08 (563)
• India
1 Jun 16
All thanks to the romantic movies and serials on televisions that I also know of the same reason for which the wedding ring is worn on the left ring finger. And I have always seen people wearing it there. This is the first time I am seeing a couple wearing it in their right. Well, I prefer left! (Due to the cliched re@son!)
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
1 Jun 16
I imagine that's also the tradition where you are too...
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@Ishani08 (563)
• India
2 Jun 16
@sishy7 Yes, it is.
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
23 May 16
Sishy? Were the bride and groom from one of the European countries? Maybe Germany, Austria, Poland, Bulgaria, Norway or Russia? It would make sense for the rings to be on the right hands instead of the left if they were from one of those countries, since that is the traditional hand a wedding ring is worn on there.... You might also like this:
This post is sponsored by DanforthDiamond.com, providing discount engagement rings and wedding rings online for up to 40% off of retail. Today I found out the history and symbolism behind the tradition of wearing a wedding ring and why, in most western cul
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
23 May 16
they're American but they do have different Asian backgrounds... I think it's also done in Chinese culture if I'm not mistaken... thanks for the link, it's very interesting...
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
24 May 16
@sishy7 You are very welcome, hon!
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
27 May 16
My husband and I wear our wedding rings in Our right hand.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
27 May 16
oh, would that be the tradition at your place?
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• Philippines
28 May 16
@sishy7 Maybe, I'm not sure. My mother was the one who told me that it should be in the right finger.
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• Riverside, California
27 May 16
I wear my engagement ring on my left finger, but it's only due to comfort reasons. I don't think I'd ever switch over to my right finger. Nothing feels comfortable on my dominant hand.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
27 May 16
I'm right-handed too and I use it to put jewelries on my left hand...
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• Riverside, California
27 May 16
@sishy7 It's funny how we use our right hand for everything, but when it comes to jewelry it just doesn't feel right. I always feel like jewelry gets in the way when it's on my right hand.
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