Bro's before Hoes?

@Absinto (2385)
Portugal
May 17, 2016 10:57am CST
This is something i would love to get opinions about. Where i live this is a small world yet there are alot of people that put this rule in action. When you break up with someone, i think you are free to be woth whoever you want. Even if it is a friend of you ex because it is your life. You choose how to live it. My brain doesn't stop me when it comes to this rule that people put. Of course it would always be weird but you cant make someone not do as they feel. What do you think about this rule/code?
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Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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17 May 16
well i always believed in this bro code. but men these days take woman over friendship. then again world for all men works as if men are expendable. so i am cool with that too now.
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Babygirlrae
@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
17 May 16
My husband chooses this option a lot but I always let him go. Its nice not having him around lol
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Kevin
@kevin1877uk (36988)
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17 May 16
Not heard of it myself, Once a relationship is ended then you are free you do what you like aren't you?
Absinto
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
17 May 16
That is how it should be but some people dont see it that way.
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Absinto
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
17 May 16
@kevin1877uk some people think a diferent way. And most people this like this sadly.
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Kevin
@kevin1877uk (36988)
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17 May 16
@Absinto I guess not which is a shame they don't.
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Nishant Khandelwal
@NishxDc (128)
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17 May 16
Umm well, this is a very sacred rule between guys. And some guys give it real importance. Its just to induce good faith between to brothers( close friends) But on the other hand, you're right, a person should have the right to decide who or who they do not want to date, moreover it also depends on the other person. Me being a person who was defied this code, although my friend does not know it as he away from college, feel that its okay if you want to, but you will surely feel a little guilty and maybe your friendship maybe at stake. All in all the decision is yours and the consequences depend on you and your friend.
Absinto
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
17 May 16
Guys make a big deal out of this. I know because unfortunatly there was an incident a couple of months ago and the man was guilty afterwards. Either way i think it depends on the guys point of view. I dont see the point yet i do get why this rule exists for some people.
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Nishant Khandelwal
@NishxDc (128)
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17 May 16
@Absinto as I said before, its just so that you can trust your friend, and build some good faith.
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