Siblings. Is this normal?

@Ianist (278)
Indonesia
May 17, 2016 11:56am CST
My family and I are normal, but not that close to each other. I'm the youngest of 3 children. My sister is 6 years older than me and my brother is 9 years older than me. In the house or in the car, we usually never talk to each other. Probably just small talk, but never a real conversation. But recently, we're starting to talk a little. Me and my sister started to get closer. at least we can start a conversation and share some secrets. And with my brother, we started to talk a little sometimes, but never a conversation. I'm not really talkative at home, and so as he. Even though it's better now, I'm just wondering, is it normal?
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@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
18 May 16
we talk when we're together. but im a bit quiet cause im the youngest, most of the time i cant relate. did you guys grow up in the same house?
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@Ianist (278)
• Indonesia
18 May 16
we grew up in the same house, and in the house I'm one of the quiet one
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@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
18 May 16
its probably your individual interests. you dont get to do the same things most of the time..
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• United States
17 May 16
I am honestly an only child but I have half and step-siblings that I never really talk to as an adult. So I guess that it is normal not to be able to talk to each other much.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
18 May 16
It's probably the huge age gap that makes you having less conversations with your siblings.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
18 May 16
@Ianist Then it must not be the only reason - I'm sure personalities have something to do with this too...
@Ianist (278)
• Indonesia
18 May 16
yup, I'm like half introvert, and my brother is too.
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@Ianist (278)
• Indonesia
18 May 16
Probably. Sometimes I think it's like that too, but some friends I know who has a bigger age gap with his brother holds a conversation just fine.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 May 16
Me and my siblings talk a lot like anything.
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