From a mother's point of view
By Ahann
@ahann_coy (116)
May 24, 2016 10:31pm CST
Being a mother takes a lot of risk, responsibilities, unplanned events, good or bad decision and many more. Doesn't have salary nor overtime pay. But the joy you feel pays all of it. Complete the YOU as a woman.
As a mother, I am more concerned with their future. What will they be if they grew up, will they be the person we wanted them to be or the opposite. We keep on looking for an effective way of disciplining them. We sometimes stumble on a wrong one but recovers again.
Being a mother is also dangerous. Imagine, carry them in your womb for 9 months, give birth to them and takes care of them until eternity. Get scarred if they cry, feel afraid if they are sick.
Being a mother receives the most beautiful reward. LOVE from our children. Love that no matter what happens, stay within our hearts.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
25 May 16
Motherhood isn't easy, but it's worth it to see those smiling faces, all the I loves you, hugs, funny stuff they do even the stories they create. I love it ans yes some days I dislike, being a mom and those are the days when in know my children have tested my limits..
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@ahann_coy (116)
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25 May 16
exactly, that's when you tries to teach them the correct manner but they keep on pissing you.
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
25 May 16
Hi there Ahann!
You are right. I completely agree. No one can ever set a standard of what kind of mother makes a good one. There are too many parenting styles, too many learning styles and personalities of children, there are various situations and status in different aspects of life that can affect your way of parenting. A single action can send ripples of effects in your child's life. Still, I read somewhere that you are already a good parent once you start wondering whether you are a good parent or not.
@ahann_coy (116)
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25 May 16
It's one of my dilemma actually, I don't know if I am that effective in telling them how to be a good man.
@ahann_coy (116)
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25 May 16
exactly, it always melts your heart watching how sweet they are for each other. Their I love you's and hugs, its so overwhelming..
