I'm not the friendliest and i'm not very sociable either..

@slayer08 (2377)
Philippines
May 27, 2016 7:12am CST
But I am very loyal and trustworthy.. At least that's what I want to be as a friend. You wouldn't see me making too many friends as long as I have a few good ones, it doesn't matter who or from where, I'm all good. I usually consider friends as really precious people in ones life and to just choose them so randomly is a waste of time. I don't mind, if it will take ma a year to make a friend as long as he or she is true. I'm very picky when it comes to friends and I don't mind if others don't like me, I'm usually just civil about it. Now, I only have 5 real friends who I can really count on and depend on.. And I'm happy I have them. I wouldn't be a good friend either if I have too many, anyway.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
27 May 16
I'm always very suspicious of people who claim to have lots of friends and are overly friendly and over eager to be friends. But then again, as we both know, I'm just an old cynic
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
27 May 16
Well, it pays to be a cynic most of the time as I've found out later in life. You have every right to be suspicious of people who are too friendly. I was naive back then and I've been a willing victim of such personalities in the past that I've been too traumatized to be with people who smile too often even if their eyes says otherwise..I try to stay away from them
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
27 May 16
@slayer08 The eyes always give it away!!
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
27 May 16
@WorDazza I still have my cats though.. At least I know they don't think highly of me.. I can see it in their eyes.. Haha
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 16
I don't need a whole lot of friends. So long as they're good friends and generally care for me. Those are the ones I care about and are worth keeping.
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 16
@slayer08 I know. I don't understand it either. It doesn't make sense to me. But some people are like that.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
27 May 16
Exactly. You took the words out of my mouth.. I don't understand why some people make too many friends then be untrue to them.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
28 May 16
@dodo19 maybe they just want to seem friendly for some reason but I always say, a friend to all is a friend to none.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
27 May 16
I have more male friends than female friends. I hate gossiping and I don't like talking about other people like some women do. That's why i hangout mostly with male friends and I trust them more with my secrets.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
27 May 16
I hate gossiping either. I have a tendency to be judgmental that's why I don't like finding out the negepative things about bother people. I also have more male friends than females. I hate the drama that some women engage to.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
27 May 16
@slayer08 Women are full of drama.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
27 May 16
@toniganzon does that include us? Haha I agree, the last thing I need is someone who will verify and validate my own personal drama.. Plus a lot of women are just so into familial issues not that it's bad, it's just silly sometimes.
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 May 16
I am really glad to have the few friends that I have. I don't feel the need to have a bunch of friends either-but I do consider a lot of people on MyLot my friends. They have offered me advice when needed, encouragement when needed and prayers when needed as well.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
29 May 16
Keeping your friends within a small circle is a great idea because you can be with all of them wthout leaving out the others plus you can really be close.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
27 May 16
It is nice to know what you want and whom you want to have next to you as a friend. Always cool to be around people whom you really value and vice verser too. Is 5 not that less to have?
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
29 May 16
Well, 5 is fine with me, as I don't often go out I try to be available for my friends and ity would be difficult on my part if I have more.
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@mbabies2 (426)
• United States
28 May 16
I feel the same way. I only have a few good friends but we have been friends for my whole life basically. loyalty is so important
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
28 May 16
It is indeed.. Without it, being friends with someone will be pointless..
@xiaolisu (957)
31 May 16
I only have friends I can see everyday .I can talk everyday . I think that is the friendship I want . everything be changed as time passes .time and distance alienated us
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 May 16
I have only few real friends, I don't like many because many means hard to adjust with their characters.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
27 May 16
I agree..
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
27 May 16
You have no plans to make them 6?
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
27 May 16
If you'll be the 6th, why not.
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@Oishi24 (47)
• Kolkata, India
27 May 16
I know lot of people who consider themselves my friend and yet, I never have. It's not that I don't like them, I simply only deem a person as my friend when I feel free to open up to them about my feelings and not have them judge me and by that count, I only have three real friends.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
29 May 16
Same here..
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 May 16
I'm too friendly. I tend to have friends but I seldom talk about myself or share secrets to them. I only have like 5 trusted friends whom I can tell my problems. I also have one bestfriend for now and that's the boyfriend. If I dont like the person, no way for me to have my time on someone. I also have guy friends than girl friends. I hate the deceptive drama. I am a friend who listens and speak for the truth. I want a friend who is more like me. :) Also I am a loyal friend whether you dont like me anymore.
@shamish (202)
30 May 16
Even I am like that.