Not buying the pink iPhone

@carebear29 (31970)
Wausau, Wisconsin
May 27, 2016 6:59pm CST
Since my husband and I got into an argument today about money, I have decided not to buy the new pink iPhone 5c I really wanted. He yelled at me about money and how we are always broke and how I don't have a job nor help pay for things. Well, I am upset about it but its okay at the same time. I have a working phone and that is all that counts. Sorry to break it to everyone. Maybe I will just save money and buy it when he isn't paying attention and then switch it. I think that may be my plan but not for certain yet. We will see how everything goes I guess. TTYL!
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@NJChicaa (120142)
• United States
28 May 16
don't switch it without him knowing. That will only cause another fight.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
I know but I will be saving for it
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
28 May 16
Money is always a contentious issue in a relationship. If you have a working phone, I see no need to upgrade to a new one. Just my two cents. Of course, it is your money so you can spend it as you please.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
29 May 16
@carebear29 so did you get the new phone yet?
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
29 May 16
@allen0187 Not yet. Working on PoshMark sales to get it
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
29 May 16
I know
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@kaylachan (71804)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Jun 16
Your husband may have a point. Despite being compeativly priced, Apple's phones tend to be overpriced. Sure, older models (such as the 5C) have gone down in price since their release, but it's better to save your money. If there's no reason to buy it (other than you want it), may be better to wait. In a few months it may go down even further in price, seems to happen with the release of newer phones.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
1 Jun 16
Thanks for the advice
• United States
28 May 16
I would save money and wait a little until you have a little extra. Plus will you be able to sell your phone if you were to purchase a new one? That can be less pocket money if you'd be able to sell your current phone afterwards.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
I usually buy off a few trusted sites
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• United States
28 May 16
@carebear29 Yes. Of course!
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• United States
28 May 16
Coming from someone who was once married, and who had financial troubles? DO NOT do anything like that behind his back. My ex and I had a lot of strain and resentment towards each other, especially towards the end. There were a lot of other reasons that I won't go into here, but one was the financial situation. I didn't have a job for most of our marriage / dating. I had a job when I met him, and he didn't have one. I quit mine because it was too stressful, but that also meant that I couldn't find another one as quickly as I would have liked. Everything that was bought etc? He bought. It's a stressful / straining situation to be in, even when having online income to contribute. I hope you can get the phone you want though. Is there anyway to make payments towards one?
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
I usually tell him everything honestly but he fails to listen. I don't what to do anymore. He wonders why I keep to myself
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• United States
28 May 16
@carebear29 oooh selective hearing just makes me mad! Probably why I've not been in a serious relationship for awhile. I've started telling people how it is.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
@ScribbledAdNauseum Yep, I am very stubborn and opinionated. He hates that I tell him like it is also. Its okay for him to buy things he wants without me knowing but I can't buy one nice thing. Sad
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 16
as long as the other phone is working your good to go. anyway in no time pretty sure youll get that pink cute iPhone you wanted. chill! :)
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
29 May 16
@JustBhem Thank you
@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
As long as I keep getting PoshMark sales, I can buy my new phone
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 16
@carebear29 Sure. Sure. You can buy that someday. :)
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@snowy22315 (182216)
• United States
28 May 16
Good Luck!
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
Yep
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
28 May 16
That's why I suggested painting instead. Because from what you said earlier it seemed like he was hinting around about not buying. That was the impression I had anyway what with the mention of how much was spent on repairs and all. You know how people are sometimes. They never say what they really want, just " I don't mind. Do what you want" and then they blow up at you later. I hope you can still get the phone that you want in time.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
Yeah I am going to save my own money for it. May take time but its for me, not him
@toniganzon (72532)
• Philippines
28 May 16
If you think your husband has a point then it's much better not to get the pink one.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
I know. That is what I was debating on
@paigea (36315)
• Canada
28 May 16
My monthly bill for my phone's plan is $27.00 Ten % of that paid for the phone after 4 years. I would rather have bills caught up than have a fancy phone. Eventually I will need a new one I guess.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
29 May 16
Lol
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• United Kingdom
28 May 16
I guess he'd notice pretty quickly if a new pink phone suddenly replaced the one you have now - personally I'd save up for it myself, open up the web page where I'm going to order it from then as I press 'submit order' loudly announce that I have bought myself a new phone... Yeah, it'd cause a row but you definitely keep the moral high ground for being honest... :o)
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
He told me for me to buy it, I have to make my own money. PoshMark sales are doing good so far
@mbabies2 (426)
• United States
29 May 16
Sorry to hear you can't get what you want. Hope it works out soon
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
29 May 16
I will soon enough
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28 May 16
I had that phone,I prefer the Android style because whichever Iphone you buy,it comes with a certain amount of space,which you can't expand.So the android is better for me and we agree which phones we want together.
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@carebear29 (31970)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 May 16
Androids are way to slow to me. I love my iPhones