Torn Between Friends

What was the reason they are at each other's throats? You don't have to get involved let them settle it with each other. Otherwise, avoid them both and move on with your life.

Yes, it has happened, but I do let both people involved know I am going to be friends with both and won't stop talking to one of them because the other has problems with them. They will end up working it out soon, I hope then you won't hear from them...lol

It has my friend many years ago..it was the thing in this girls home I lived in at the time when I was young. There were always some issues going on with some girls and I was friends with everyone lolz

That hasn't happened to me in awhile. It did when I was in school between certain friends.

not yet. but i think in that situation, you should be the bridge to let close the gap between them

I had 5 friends since we were teens,things started going wrong ,it was she said,she said,she did,she told me,l was sick of it all so l made a decision to set them free, soon after we had(all of us) this fight that ended it all. All 6 of us are no longer in contact,l miss them all,we had known each other for about 25 years.But l dont need the friendship any more.

Its happened to me and I stay neutral until thins cool over, no real friend should make you choose ect

Frequently happen at me.when i started close with other people and my friends start to being not comfortable.she angry with me cause i'll close with that people.i said people can be friends with anyone.not specific with one people only.then we separate only about that but we became friend back but just like being stranger person.right now i advice myself to be friends with anyone.

Sure, it is one of the worst expirience indeed

Most of the time in recent past. Now I left almost all of them. Rarely one or two there is in my friend list.

omg that´s awful! i´ve been in the same situation ! my advice stay neutral. and things will get better.

I know right? This is so annoying sometimes. This happened with me when two of my closest friends fought with each other and asked me to pick sides. And went on to the limits so say if I would speak to other they wouldn't talk to me. I finally decided to stop talk to both of them for a while, until they sorted things out between them. I guess you should probably do the same.

Oooh. I've been there, when I had an even triangle of friends (just the 3 of us), and we would get into fights, we all had the opportunity to be in the middle of a fight at some point; needless to say, our triangle broke up, and it is just two of us left. But, if I should offer some advice for you, remain neutral...don't take a side, and if they try to get you to choose a side, just let either know that you aren't taking sides. Be objective...listen to what each of them has to say, offer advice that can force them to talk about it with one another, and eventually the two in the conflict will resolve it...unfortunately, you'll probably need to play moderator in their arguments, or they will want you to! Chin up! I'm sure everything will work out for the best!