I am gay,married,get over it.
@amadeo (111938)
United States
June 8, 2016 3:12pm CST
Good afternoon.you would think at my age.People still ask me if I am married.
Say yes,but they will not let it be.So at times I get a little miffed.
So I had enough.Yes,I am gay and married.Does this answer your question.
do you have a problem with this.Then they will shut up.
Why are people so interest in your married life .
do you ask an 86 years old man all of the question.
Yes,I am a happy gay man.So get over it.
This quiet them down.
Been gay since the day I was born.
photo is public domaine
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
8 Jun 16
It has nothing to do with being gay or straight. Asking a person's marital status at any age is a common question and seemingly part of natural curiosity. I am asked if I am married or ever married and when I say never, I am always further asked why never? but it doesn't bother me. If they are rolling their eyes about you being a gay married person then I understand your annoyance but otherwise it's standard.
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@crossbones27 (50203)
• Mojave, California
8 Jun 16
What you are gay and married? If I had known that. I would have never been your friend. Just kidding, I think I knew you were gay after your second post on Bubblews because you said you were married to Mike.Just does not sound like a girls name to me. Do not let some people get you down. At 86 you were gay before it was even cool to be gay. People should be thanking you because now people do not have to hide who they really are.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
9 Jun 16
@amadeo Most of the people are curious about people.Some ask questions openly and some wonder.When they come to know some one is gay,they are full of questions.While some are just curious,there are some who are very judgemental. Never mind them
be happy always.As it is said-''Let the dogs bark,the caravan moves on''.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
8 Jun 16
I find many are still living in old times. I honestly don't care just as long as you are happy.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
8 Jun 16
@ricki_911 yes many are.The young generation are not too bad
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
9 Jun 16
@amadeo I was going to say that it would most likely be the older generations.
@FourWalls (72155)
• United States
10 Jun 16
What????? You're married????? You didn't send me a wedding invitation!!!! 
@Meramar (2695)
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9 Jun 16
Years ago, many people had to hide their condition, otherwise their were exposed to be judged by society.. Some of them had to die But to be gay is a personal condition which should not be any problem. Nobody can tell you how to live and to enjoy life. Oscar Wilde is only one example of martyrdom, even being an excellent artist.
@suziecat7 (3350)
• Asheville, North Carolina
9 Jun 16
People surely need to mind their own business. I'm glad you're happy and have always remained true to yourself.
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
9 Jun 16
good for you - some people are so impertinent in wanting to know all our secrets and aspects of our lives by asking nosey questions to which the answers are none of their business
@carebear29 (31979)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
9 Jun 16
Nothing wrong with that. Its your choice and lifestyle
@andriaperry (118440)
• Anniston, Alabama
9 Jun 16
Everyobe assumes me and Tony are married but we aren`t. People even call me by his last name. Most of the time I just go with it because its none of their business and some are shocked when they find out we are not and never will be.
