Are obliged to share your befriend your supervisor in FB
By Bluerain25
@Bluerain25 (812)
Philippines
June 9, 2016 12:28am CST
Hello mylotters, Just got in the office today and guess what an officemate and also an FB friend shared a post from my direct supervisor in his FB wall. It seems that he is not happy that I blocked him in my FB. He cannot see my posts not even my profile. We used to be friends in FB before but I got tired of his posts that seem to destroy the other group of the team. And also every time I share some picture message, quotes and sayings that he thinks are against him, he and the rest of his friends would over react. So to keep it simple I limit my posts so that they wont be able to see what i posted in fb. and i unfriend him since my profile is set to friends only, he cannot look my profile up but the rest can only that they cannot see my posts. and now he wanted me to make my profile public so that he can see it? What the...
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
seems fb is embedded in everything now - family, work, personal, social issues, politics...
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@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
I do not like my office mates to get into my personal life. But office mates who are my friends they can take a peek of it but not all
@ChildofGod81 (504)
• United States
9 Jun 16
You have the right to refuse. I have never been friends with a supervisor on FB and I'm really careful about what co-workers I allow too. You have the freedom of speech and if allowing your supervisor access takes that away from You, then it's your duty to protect yourself.
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@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
10 Jun 16
Yes pamela that is what I am trying to tell them it is my facebook account and i have the right to choose who can view my posts and who cannot. it seems that he is trying to warn me of something. In hos post, he says "somebody block me in fb and you know who she is. Then All i can say is congratulations to you who blocked me". hmm it seems that he is up to something
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
10 Jun 16
@ChildofGod81 thank you for this, actually i just post picture messages with sayings most of it are repost from fb friends that i also share. some may have some contents that they think are for them but the real reason is that i just like the message so i share it without intentions to insult them or whatever they think the reason is.
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@ChildofGod81 (504)
• United States
10 Jun 16
@Bluerain25 He can't fire you for it, so I wouldn't worry. The only thing I would do at that point is be careful what I post, just in case he tries to use anything you say as a reason to let you go. Just make sure all your behavior is without reproach. Social media is used in so many different areas now that unless you're careful, things can very much come back to bite you. But he can't fire you for refusing to friend him.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
The more that you should not unblock him my friend . If he you unblock him , he can always see your post and if it hits me he will react . So better let him be blocked .
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
He will always be blocked from my FB and his circcle of friends will remain unfollowed :)
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Jun 16
@Bluerain25 I am happy that you are that determined to block him . Keep it up .
@Letranknight2015 (51938)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
You have the right to refuse, that's not within the paremeters of his supervisory towards you. That FB is your right to speech and to you alone.
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@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
Yeah right it is my Fb account and I have the right whom I want to share my posts and whom I want to be in my friends list
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
some f my office mates cannot see my posts. I set my posts to custom but since we have mutual friends sometimes they can peek it in some mutual friends FB. and they do not like the idea that they cannot see my posts
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
9 Jun 16
@Bluerain25 one of my collegaue told me that she cannot see my photo albums. I went to her table and ahow my fulll account. I do not photo albums haha.
Some people are pretty curuios on others' life. Oh darn. I grouped all my collegues to RESTRICTED. Ahmmm, actually even my relatives. Haha.
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
@wiLLmaH lol I also have selected relatives who can view my photos. some are not on my friendslist at all
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@ModernDayWriter (3318)
• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 16
Never do it! Let him be blocked. I also hate these sorts of guys 
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@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
I just unfriend him and when he finds out he was enrage with it I do not know why i should when my FB is my personal account and have nothing nothing to do with work.
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