Sometimes helping others is not good

Bhem

@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

11 Jun 16

@Micah04 Oh sorry. I never know it's your sister. Well, you should help her because she's your sister. But she should be thankful help comes to her.

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@Micah04 (36)

• Philippines

11 Jun 16

Even if i dont want to help her i think i should help here. She's my sister. I feel guilty if i dont help her especially financial help.

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@Micah04 (36)

• Philippines

11 Jun 16

@JustBhem thanks for the advice.

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Arthur Chappell

@arthurchappell (44998)

• Preston, England

11 Jun 16

some people can be really ungrateful for our help - I'd avoid helping her for a while if it causes you problems too

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@Micah04 (36)

• Philippines

11 Jun 16

Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate it

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vanny

@vandana7 (100282)

• India

13 Jun 16

Tell me about it..expectations multiply to an enormous level..that it almost sounds weird. I have been through some recently.

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Chungshop

@Chungshop (2355)

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11 Jun 16

When you help some one you must not expect anything from him. If not it is not just help, help become a condition or agreement already. Help have no condition or return rewards. No matter how he say or treat you, is not your problem. It is the person problem and she will got punished that we never know. Give a hand to anyone you pass by though he is a stranger.

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Chungshop

@Chungshop (2355)

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13 Jun 16

@Micah04 Give a hand , help with no reason. Who know 1 day, you need help too.

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@Micah04 (36)

• Philippines

11 Jun 16

Thank you for the advice. You have a point.

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Marlina

@marlina (154131)

• Canada

11 Jun 16

Just break the bond between you and that person.

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vanny

@vandana7 (100282)

• India

13 Jun 16

@Micah04 ..If she is older sister, learn to brush it off and never be there..doesn't matter because if she is exploiting, she is...and she knows. Outsiders may not realize it, but insiders know when they are doing that and are enjoying your hesitation because they know your confusion.

@Micah04 (36)

• Philippines

11 Jun 16

Thanks for the advice. I really wanted to but its hard because she's my older sister. ??

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Indradi Akmam

@Ianist (278)

• Indonesia

11 Jun 16

Don't think like that. She's not worth that much. Don't let someone like her to change your opinion about other people.

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Indradi Akmam

@Ianist (278)

• Indonesia

11 Jun 16

@Micah04 if you don't think you can help just anyone, at least help the people that are worth your help

@Micah04 (36)

• Philippines

11 Jun 16

Maybe you are right. I should not stop helping to anyone no matter what or how they treat me.

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Timea

@tzwrites (4835)

• Romania

11 Jun 16

Some people are very ungrateful and don't deserve help.

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@Micah04 (36)

• Philippines

11 Jun 16

You're right. Even if your intention is pure they still say something bad about you.

Ella

@eliza_godinez12 (5726)

• Philippines

11 Jun 16

Yeah! There were people really don't appreaciate good things you made to them. I just thank God because i haven't experienced this. People i've met were good and appreciate things.

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