Is it true..there is nothing right or wrong in love?

India
June 14, 2016 6:05pm CST
Recently one of my friends had an affair with her married colleague which lead to breaking of marriage of said married colleague.Now my friend is living together with her colleague.Other day when I asked her about what will happen to ex wife and kid of her boyfriend.She told me that in love there is nothing wrong or right.When I asked her why did she got involved with her boyfriend when he was still married.She told me that I will not understand as I have no experience of relationships.These types of arguments I have been hearing lately from many of our common friends currently supporting her. I just want to know does love give us permission to hide behind it and not take moral responsibility of our actions?Is being in love means thinking about only ourselves.Am I missing seeing some point that many of my friends are seeing that i m not seeing?
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joy
@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
i hope your friend will realize sooner. love is not selfish.
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jerry260188
@jerry260188 (247)
• India
15 Jun 16
Those who cheat once what is the guarantee they won't cheat again.I tried explaining this to my friend but she is not listening to me and thinks I m against her relationship.
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joy
@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
who would want to be on her side? the only advice i can give to you is to pray for her for what she did.
Danzylop
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
It is always wrong to budge into a relationship with a married person. It is a wrong belief that love is blind. No! As long as you can make it right, make it right. Nothing will come out right when it starting with something wrong.
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jerry260188
@jerry260188 (247)
• India
15 Jun 16
Thank god people here are finding this wrong as I was beginning to think that why only I m finding this wrong, why some of our common friends are supporting this incident? I was like maybe I am not looking at some crucial aspect of whole affair.
Jabo
@jaboUK (64355)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 16
Falling in love is not a choice, it just happens. However, what you do about it is definitely a choice. Your friend and the man involved should have put his wife and child above their own feelings and desires.
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GreatMartin
@GreatMartin (23672)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
19 Jun 16
She obviously doesn't want to take responsibility for her actions--don't be surprised when he cheats on her! As in every emotion there is right and wrong as to how we react to it.
ida123
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Jun 16
I think this is not love because love is kind so if it is kind, no one should be hurt because of their affair. I think, it is lust.
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jerry260188
@jerry260188 (247)
• India
15 Jun 16
Yes love is kind. I think that once the novelty of relationship wears off they would eventually realise what they did was wrong.
rosyrose
@vickyrose (2235)
• Cooma, Australia
15 Jun 16
I maybe judgmental here, but married people should be a 'no go zone' for single people. There's a lot of single people out there. It's a bit selfish to break a family specially when kids are involved. It's probably easier said than done.
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jerry260188
@jerry260188 (247)
• India
15 Jun 16
Exactly what I believe married men and women should be a big no for single people.