Love
@eddieing314 (89)
St. Louis, Missouri
June 16, 2016 12:26am CST
Why is that we all love someone who loves someone else. And to make matters difficult someone is doing the same towards you?
There's a girl I love to death but she loves someone. She's had my back since day 1. I can come to her with whatever problem I want and she's a genuinely caring person. I kinda feel like one of those kids off the show 'Friendzone' . Now though we do feel for each other on certain levels she doesn't see me the way I see her.
However the same exact thing is going on with me. I care for another lady I've known a while. I see her as my friend. Same as the first lady, she very caring and genuine. But I don't see myself with her.
So I ask GOD why the hell is love so complicated? What drives people to another who doesn't want them? I sometimes close my heart because of situations like this because I hate complications. But I seem to cant now. Is it because I'm older. Or scared to be alone? Is it that I know not what to do? I keep asking what I should do but i realm don't know??. Huh THE CRAZY WORD LOVE LOL. Man ain't it a pretty confusing thing?
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@eddieing314 (89)
• St. Louis, Missouri
17 Jun 16
It is. I want the first lady but damn. I always ask why me??
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@eddieing314 (89)
• St. Louis, Missouri
17 Jun 16
I told her once and that was about it. Maybe if we talk again I can realm sit and tell her my feelings. But I don't wanna be one of those kids that throw I all out and she doesn't feel what I'm saying.
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@Pass12 (998)
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16 Jun 16
Your story is really very confusing. May god help you find a solution :p
In my case i had a crush on my classmate two years ago and recently he told me he also had a crush on me. We both love each other now also (old love never fades kinda thing) and are happy with each other. My love life isn't complicated at all :)
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@Valantis (89)
• Volos, Greece
16 Jun 16
What i wanted to comment first is that you are not that old... :) As for the love part i think you are approaching the problem in the wrong way. As far as I can tell from what you have already mention is that you had a friendship with the ladies and it evolved into love through time (for you). Now there are 2 options actually either you stay friends and you don't say anything to her and keep everything bottled up, or you can start by showing your affection towards her. It is a though decision but you must take it.
@eddieing314 (89)
• St. Louis, Missouri
17 Jun 16
I think I will say something. Like REALLY just tell her look and go from there.
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@eddieing314 (89)
• St. Louis, Missouri
18 Jun 16
@Valantis yea it is but I don't want that feeling if she says no. Sucks it does.
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