Sad , That It Has To End Soon

sad , nightly walk
@SIMPLYD (90722)
Philippines
June 21, 2016 1:02am CST
Yes, I feel sad because my husband will finally be resigned from his job comes July 05 . It means our nightly walks from where both of our office is , to the city, where we will take a ride to our house will also end already . Our nightly gazing together at the sea first ( a picture I took is attached with my husband by the sea deck on one of those nights ) , before finally going for that walk, will also end . I will instead be again taking the e-jeep with my officemates. It isn’t a lonely trip , because I have my officemates as companions. But , of course it is more romantic and nice to walk with my husband . I suppose you guys feel the same if activities such as this, is done with our partners .
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@skysnap (20153)
21 Jun 16
yes i understand. my father is retired but he goes on to some office for just few hours for work. it keeps him busy and he doesn't think of his health issues.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
Retirement is also a sad and happy event in one's life . Sad because you won't be seeing your former officemates everyday . Happy because you finally don't have to wake up early to go to work anymore . My hubby hasn't retired . Just resigned from their office .
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
That walk on the sea deck won't end if your husband comes to fetch you from work and the two of you continue with that romantic walk before going home That would be very sweet of him. Will he be 60 by July 5?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
How i wish he can find work where he can fetch me after office hours . No, he has just turned 51 . He got the early retirement offer as the team leader of a leading courier company two years ago . He went into buy and sell of second hand cars , but after selling the two cars , i told him to just go back to work again . But he doesn't like the fact that he isn't the boss of an office anymore .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
@sunrisefan Really ? Here it's a bit sunny . How i wish it would rain too again tonight .
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD Ah okay. Rain is pouring down hard now. There may be a brown-out anytime.
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
I agree.. this is one of the reason why I can't resign my current job.. because my girlfriend is on the same job too :/
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
See ? Sometimes , a job or a workplace gets lovely to work at because we have our love one to go home with after work .
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD Agree. even if there's better opportunity to other area. we still choose to stay because of our love one .....
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21 Jun 16
most of us meet out loveones at our work
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
21 Jun 16
Oh! that is the most romantic view to look at while walking hand in hand with your love ;) ..
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
Yes ! We always stop by here for about 5 minutes to simply gaze at the waters , the stars and the Mayon Volcano while savoring the sea breeze too . What a nice way to relax , before going for that walk not hand in hand but with me holding at his arms , lest he runs away from me .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@epiffanie Oh so it's there that you stay when in Legazpi . I think next time you come to Embarcadero Hotel where you will get this view each day and you get to go to the nearby Legazpi Boulevard where a row of restaurants by the beach is being offered .
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD We usually stay at the Airport hotel when we are Legaspi.. We enjoy walking up and down the carpark there at sunset and just enjoy the view of the Mayon .. Yes, you better hang on to the arms of that husband of yours so he can't run away ..
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• Philippines
21 Jun 16
Are you kidding me? at least you had fond good memories with your hubby having night walks like that. I never had that experience, but I've been places close to that volcano.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
Yes, those nightly walks will be part of my fond memories of us , when we get to work in the same workplace . How many times have you been to Albay , seeing Mayon ?
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@Letranknight2015 Maybe you should make a post abou those pictures from Bicol .
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD when we went to Bicol I think. I had some pictures there and some sliding there i think.
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@itsmejing (606)
21 Jun 16
oh i felt that way too last December my husband also resigned from his job... But now i love to go home early because he is there waiting for me... He resigned because of his health problem and now i am happy that he gained his weight again and hoping to have a good health like before.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
So we both are in the same situation now . But i am praying that hubby will find a job soon . I am happy for you that your husband is now having a good health . Well, if you can provide well , then it will be better that he be just at home and take care of the house or the kids if there is one already .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@itsmejing Yes, just think of it that way , just as i will too.
21 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD i'm still coping but its okay, i trust in god that he will not give me problems that i cannot face..
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
21 Jun 16
It is always nice when you have a loved one to walk with.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD It can be so much fun to just laugh and talk about nothing.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@Marcyaz Actually yes . We always have that time before sleeping .
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
Yes that is true . Along the course of the walk you get to talk and laugh .
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
21 Jun 16
Everyone retires from a job and so would he and so would you in due course of time. You should accept the reality and find out other ways to go along with your husband for a walk.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
That is true . We can replace that with another bonding way .
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
21 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD - Yes, it is said - "where there is a will, there is a way".
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@dpk262006 Yes , my friend .
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
Did he not enjoy that job? Sorry that your nightly walks have to end too soon.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD I understand him, it is better to resign if not happy with his job. I hope he finds a job that will really fit his qualifications.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@salonga Yes, that's why i don't prevent him from resigning anymore . Anyway , i hope and pray he will find a good job that suits his taste .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
He didn't . He gets stressed on some aspects of the job . In addition , he doesn't like his lady boss who is a slave driver . But i know , it's because he is used to being the boss in his former job . So , he doesn't find it nice that he has a boss and is a woman .
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@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
22 Jun 16
Why your husband get resign? Did he knows you are sad? Or maybe you can take a walk on the weekend to this place?
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• Indonesia
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD : that will be better, rather than going to work but feels going to a jail ... i once in that position previously, but everything will be ok, don't worry and don't be sad
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@maxilimian Thank you , my new friend .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
He says he isn't happy working anymore . His lady boss is a slave driver he said . So i just let him because anyway , i don't want him to be stressed and get sick out of it . We can just bond in some other ways .
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
it's hard to mistake that perfect cone. it can only be the philippines' mt. mayon. i've always loved your pictures of bicolandia's pride, but never thought it could also be just as beautiful at night. i'm surprised at this turn of events. didn't realize he was unhappy there. does he want an office job again, or something with fieldwork, or go into business again?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
I am happy to know that my pictures of Mayon always entertain you . And you are right , it's the first time i had it pictured at night . Yes, still beautiful even at night . I know that he is already unhappy at his work which i gave to him through my boss . From what i can surmise , he seem not fine with a boss because in his former company he was the boss . I leave it to him what to do next . He has submitted his resumes and i hope he will find a suitablel job soon . Business is not for him , that's what i have observed .
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@sofssu (23662)
21 Jun 16
If i remember right (which I am sure I am) your husband just joined your office.. I hope it doesn't have to end so soon. He doesn't like the job or what?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@sofssu Yes, but i have to accept it might end like this because i can sense from him all along that he doesn't like the job .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
Yes, he joined one of our affiliate courtesy of my boss , just last November. January , he submitted a resignation , but was instead promised a new assignment . He thought he would like it but , he didn't . I let him resign again this time because i know he isn't happy working there . I hope he finds another job that will suit his taste .
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@sofssu (23662)
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD That is so sad.. I know you were happy when he went to office with you.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
21 Jun 16
what is the job of your husband?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
He is with the Finance Department . He handled the Accounts payable and lately the Accounts Receivable . He actually doesn't like his lady boss.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@trivia79 He is an accounting graduate only . He didn't pass the CPA Board exams . The only CPA in their department is their lady boss . The lady boss likes him , but maybe because she thinks she's new , he won't complain if she keeps adding up his tasks .
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD mmmm, he's an accountant. why his lady boss doesn't like him?
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
Your nightly walk must be very romantic indeed. What with the majestic Mayon as a backdrop and witness to the sweet nothings of a couple on a romantic stroll. LOL!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
Yes, that Majestic Mayon never fails to amaze us even at night in addition to the sound of the waves of the sea and the sea breeze slapping on our faces . So romantic and relaxing .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
@sunrisefan I will find a way to replace that romantic activity of ours . Anyway , i hope it will not drip again in your kitchen .
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD So, continue with the nightly romantic stroll hehehe! In the meantime, rain is pouring hard while I'm writing this. In a little while, it will be dripping again from our kitchen ceiling.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
I actually can feel your husband right now. Last week, 17th, I passed my resignation paper..it's long overdue actually. Been wanting to do that for sometime now just waited for the right timing. I want to go and take my Masters Degree (long overdue too!) or take professional education certificate so I can teach :) I will end my contract on July 30..so a still few more weeks but I will miss the days when my husband will come and get me from my office too..and we would sometimes not yet go home but end up having "short dates" but I am surely looking forward to more time with my kids!!! yay!!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
So you too will be resigning . You have lots of valid reason to resign indeed . Actually , my husband already submitted a resignation letter last December . But another job was offered to him . So he took it . But it seems his best isn't enough and he gets stressed , he told me , so he has to resign . But in my mind , he doesn't like his lady boss , who keeps adding other assignments so he resigned . See , so you too enjoyed your short dates with your husband . Sometimes, when there is ease in doing it like you being picked up , and us on the same work place , it is an added bonus to us , because we don't have to dress up and go out anymore , because we are already there .
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD yes and those moments are way special.. not planned, just spontaneous ;)
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@jazel_juan Precisely .
@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
Wow, you have a great view of that mountain. Is that Mayon Volcano? Sad to know that your husband's work will be until July 5 only. He should start looking for a new job already.So, no more romantic walks also. Anyway, you still have so much time with each other because you will still be seeing each other everyday.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
Yes, that's Mayon Volcano indeed . Actually , he has started scouting for another again . And hopefully he can get one soon , one that is to his liking . You are right we will still be seeing each other everyday still . And i think it's still romantic because we will not be seeing each other for about 9 hours each day .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
@magallon Well, even if we have aged , we make it a point to be sweet as much as we can . It means we tease each other every now and then . It adds color to the married life .
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD It is more romantic and exciting. You two seems so sweet as a couple.
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@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
21 Jun 16
What a beautiful view of Mayon Volcano. You can still continue with your lovely stroll when he picks you up from work.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
Thank you , yes Mayon is indeed beautiful as always . I hope he find another job which can enable us to go home together .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@thelme55 Thank you .
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@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD I hope he can. Good luck
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
21 Jun 16
You have to discover new routes now:)
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
Actually , the nightly walks are bonus to us having to work in the same place. It never happened before , where his job is at a different place.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@responsiveme On weekends we get to have those dates at some eating places in the city . Though that is on occasions because it could be costly .
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• India
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD It'll have to be weekend walks then :)
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22 Jun 16
Life is always like a riddle. You dont know when will the change comes. Though feel sad, life has to go on.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
I feel it coming , this resignation of his . He would sometimes share his stories of how a slave driver his lady boss is . Yes, i accept it as another chance to think of ways that me and my husband can bond after office hours .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@Keepsaying Thank you .
22 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD sure. believe you will also find the goodness of such change. coz every chage makes sense.
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• Indonesia
22 Jun 16
work many years ...but he can find another job ..maybe better than this, with his experience its easy to get a new job
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
Thank you for saying that . I believe so too . With my prayers , i am sure he will find a new job suited to his taste .
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@Sarigi6141 Yes. Thank you .
• Indonesia
22 Jun 16
dont give up ..god bless you ...
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