Should we marry or not?

hora_fugit

@hora_fugit (5862)

• India

25 Jun 16

@sunilmishra7756 Could not relate that GB Shaw quote to the rest of comment.... :) And yes, that's my point. The need is felt at the dusk of life only. Even for a woman. A partner (who is there at right times) would do... even if not faithful. You can verify that...

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hora_fugit

@hora_fugit (5862)

• India

25 Jun 16

@krkumar It is like that only. Rest of the time you can, even wish to, do without.

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@krkumar (209)

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25 Jun 16

not like that , it fulfill our life

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strange woman

@aarifa (1210)

• India

24 Jun 16

Marriage is god's gift.itcures the lonliness .and give some support to enjoy the world..

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marriage is godgift

@sunilmishra7756 (4263)

• Moradabad, India

24 Jun 16

Some people say mariages are decided in the Heaven then where the divorces are decided?

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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)

• Moradabad, India

25 Jun 16

@krkumar The mind in its own place and in self can make a heaven of hell , a hell of heaven. Thanks.

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@krkumar (209)

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25 Jun 16

@sunilmishra7756 its decided by our mind set and between EGO feelings

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Sharon38

@Sharon38 (1912)

• Jamaica

24 Jun 16

Why do you think that a married man cannot enjoy liberty? He has his friends doesn't he? He has his own hobbies and interests. I am single and the loneliness gets to me sometimes but I study and I pursue my hobbies to fill in the time. It would be great to have my soulmate to talk with, laugh with and even quarrel with! I never had that. I had resolved in my heart not to live with a man unless we are married and it is working good so for. For the married they are one yet they have their individual interests. Each person can pursue their careers or hobbies not because they are married it does not mean that they have to be in each other's way all the time. then I am not married so I am not an expert in that area. However for the singles you can do whatever and whenever but it does not get rid of the loneliness of not having your love to share with at the end of the day. I should know because I have been in that position for ever.Yes I can reason with my child but it is only up to a certain level and its only things that concern her now that she is an adult. So I study, work and am now thinking of getting involved in a community project,

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Sharon38

@Sharon38 (1912)

• Jamaica

24 Jun 16

@sunilmishra7756 Well let her know where you will be before you go. After all it is concern most of the time as they do not know what has happened to you. I had to verbally bite into the love of my life once. You see he went abroad without telling me and I was there calling him and unfortunately or fortunately I did not know the directions to his home cause I was thinking of going there to see if he was okay. It is the principle behind it. honey I will be going to the movies or will be hanging out with the guys so I will be home late, is good. I know the feeling of not knowing what happen or where the person is, its not a nice feeling and if the husband considers his wife's feelings then he will do so and less harm will come to him

. Good communication is the key but where distrust comes in now that is a different story altogether.

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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)

• Moradabad, India

25 Jun 16

@Sharon38 It is very nice of you that you look after your life partner so much. But all the five fingers are not equally sized. Most of the women doubt their husbands without rhyme or reason. If there is no understanding between the life partners ,the life turns into hell.Trust is the must. Man has his will, but woman has her way. Thanks.

@sunilmishra7756 (4263)

• Moradabad, India

24 Jun 16

After marriage man is not so free as he used to be. There is a vast difference between a married and unmarried life. If you come late many questions will be fired at you. She will start doubting you. You can not buy clothes only for you because she will complain that you do not buy clothes for her and children. You can not eat anything alone on the road as you used to eat with your frends relishly because the cildren will complain. We will be on the horns of dilemma.

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vanny

@vandana7 (100526)

• India

26 Jun 16

Times have changed. I am unmarried, and I never feel lonely. Depends upon what you mean by loneliness. Making meals for papa is a chore, yes. But even if papa was not around, I would still not feel lonely, I am sure of it. It is just that I have spent so many vacations without anybody around, that living alone actually seems something to look forward to.

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vanny

@vandana7 (100526)

• India

27 Jun 16

@sunilmishra7756 ...What you don't know, you can't really miss, can you? lol As I said, Indian men are more likely to be depressed because they are the apple of the eye of their parents, grandparents, then wives, and children, till suddenly they cease to be as important. Women have learned how to feel less important. In any event I feel that way..so I guess, this may be my feeling. I won't impose these feelings on others, and I won't expect others to impose their beliefs on me either. No...it does not happen the way you see it. If that were so, my aunts would not be here and their children would not be in the US. My aunts are closing in on 80. Walky talky. No emergency ..no husband...they are living alone..we are at a distance. They call, if there is an emergency. They live their lives, we live our lives. When we live together ... we even have problems in selecting television program..smh...human beings...distance makes heart fonder. lol

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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)

• Moradabad, India

27 Jun 16

It is a surprise for me that somebody can live alone. Parents can not live with you forever so you will need someone with you who can share your sorrows and pleasures.Life is only one , you will feel loneliness and it will bite you certainly after some years. It is also right that a busy bee has no time for sorrow.I wish you best of luck.

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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)

• Moradabad, India

27 Jun 16

@vandana7 Somebody says'women are children of larger gowth.' Helen Rowland writes' the follies which a man regrets most in his life are those which he did not commit when he had the opportunity' Thanks.

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@krkumar (209)

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24 Jun 16

both are having its own advantages and disadvantages , but married life is more better than bachelor life.because when we are in middle age it will be ok for doing work and manage our life , but the question is about end of the life, there must be some with us , A tree will grown up from plant level , and if it give the fruits to eat in a stage. the same life is also like that . childhood on words we will give the inputs to the life , but it results or outpu at the end of the life. so the married life is best , one who loved one and better half of our life be with us to share every movement. and above mentioned things will be there in married life also but it should be in better understanding in both wife and husband.

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@krkumar (209)

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24 Jun 16

@sunilmishra7756 absolutely it will happen , but when there is no stability to handle the troubles or manage the responsibilities are afraid of it. and even low salary also can manage the house with planing, married life is different world that can enjoy a lot

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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)

• Moradabad, India

24 Jun 16

@krkumar Some bachelors say that a bride is a responsibility that a father gives to the bridegroom for the whole life. Some say that marriage is a cage in which two birds enter willingly but remain unwilling the whole life.Divorces are the evidence of it.

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@krkumar (209)

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24 Jun 16

@sunilmishra7756 responsibility takes place in bachelor life also not only in married life , because bachelor is also take responsibility for their life ,they cannot say they are not taking care about their life , same kind of these life's. every one's life there must be some responsibilities they need it some times , and in married life is not a cage , its a planet where so many options and have to look and learn. only thing understanding is must , other wise above reasons will takes place

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