If I can Change something for the Better

I would like to change the attitude of blaming others, in myself and in others as well. Do what u can, if u don't do anything, don't blame others for not doing anything! For example, we blame the politicians for corruption etc, but how many of us maintain clean ethics in professional circle? We say' u have to be shrewd to survive in this cruel world'; this is nothing but a mean excuse!

whatever the change may be but it begins from self

I was thinking and writing about this same subject just now. I wondered what I could do to change something, even a little thing, for the better.

I try and change somethings and do not worry about what I can not change.

Instead of expecting a change in something better to appreciate that change within. It is something like expecting an object to come towards you. Instead of better we move towards the object when it is unable to move.

Oh most definitely I would like to change things. I feel that by changing small things in your life, little acts of kindness that in the grand scheme of things seem minute but to someone else they mean so much more. By one act of kindness or support or guidance we offer hope that it will be passed on and then it may snowball to something bigger than we initially thought it would be. And the annoying thing is, we may never how which act we did caused a great change of positive events, but that's why creating smaller changes may be a better way of helping to change things for the greater good.

I would just expect people to love, respect and use just what is needed of nature. That would, I think be a good place to start.

Sometimes I think that too much has changed. If we look at the lives of Australian Aboriginals, and the American Indians, they lived for thousands of years without much ever changing at all. Do we need to change then, or not, especially if it's seemingly not for the better? Some body said that the only constant is change. Was that just a flippant statement, or not? I was laying in bed this morning thinking about the house we live in. I thought to myself that unlike Europe or England, this land was virgin land before my house was built upon it. In millions of years, this was the only house to have been built here, on this plot of land. I live in Australia, and so this is true of a lot of new home owners here. The building of my house on this land changed it, perhaps forever (apart from the probable clearing of the land, from its natural scrub setting, years ago, and change happening from natural happenings such as bush-fires though, of course) But it got me to thinking, what was this land like 1000 years ago, this exact plot of land, what was happening here then? I drifted off into a sort of meditative state, by taking a few deep breathes and going through a progressive relaxation of all of my different body parts. Then I saw some grassland, and a kangaroo jumping past. I saw some scrub and some tea tree like trees. I then smelt something cooking nearby. I turned around and I saw an Aboriginal man with a fire on the ground and he was cooking a small kangaroo on it, fur and all. He looked up at me, and pointed to himself, "gagakul" he said, then he beckoned me over to him and pulling the now ready meat out from the fire, he removed the skin, and pulled off a chunk of cooked meat, and poked it onto the end of a stick and gave it to me to try. It was delicious. I then woke up, as I had drifted into a dream, I think. I knew somewhere within me that "gagakul" was his name. Was this just a good story perhaps based on some factual archetypes embedded within my mind, perhaps put together in this way to get something more deeply real across to me? This is showing me that I can connect to the same land as the aboriginals did in that same way, as the land is always there underneath it all, whether there is a house built upon it, or not. Nothing much can change the basics provided then, as long as we allow them to pretty much remain as they are, and if we do not destroy the Earth too much more with our mining, our blasting, our polluting of it, and our constant burying of our rubbish.