Stuck In Love. Wrong or Right I am unsure.

@Archie0 (5652)
June 27, 2016 5:31am CST
All these years I have been waiting for my life partner to come into my life. I kept myself single until I was literally crossing my teenage and entered late adulthood. Well, good thing was I got into a relationship with one of my college friend. Beginning ws rough, but we did decide to get married soon. Different thing was he kept ignoring me always, I did not know actual reasons behind it. I use to think I was commiting some unknown mistakes which wasn't true. There is this girl who is suppose to be his cousin, I had some doubts on her being attracted physically towards my fiance. One day to my surprise she confessed that she was actually attracted and so was he. They did have some contacts between them. My fiance confessed the same to me, he also said that he cannot think about living his life without me. And now he shows a lot of interest in me, messages and phone calls. We meet regular basis like atleast once in a month or so. I do love him too much to think about leaving him. But I am afraid if I am not being targeted or used for some reason. Sometimes I feel he really loves me and lot of times I feel like it will all change until he makes sure I am ok with his mistakes.
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@skysnap (20153)
27 Jun 16
You're happy then that is a good thing. Never been in love so I can't relate. But if it leads to happiness then I guess that's the best thing.
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@Archie0 (5652)
27 Jun 16
I agree I love him. But my insecurity is killing me. And it's not wrong to be insecure because that cousin has been rotting my brain from their old stories and she also assures me that he won't ever love me.
@skysnap (20153)
27 Jun 16
@Archie0 insecurity is normal. treat this as a phase. it happens for 3 years till you get complete confidence over partner. that's what I have seen by watching couples.
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@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
27 Jun 16
Good for you that your relationship has turned to your favour but make sure that you don't go into relax mode and not take care of this relationship. Relationships are like plants. You need to care for it all the time and put into effort in knowing on how to make it grow bigger and healthier. Try to know your partner and make him get more interested in you as well as the relationship you are currently having before getting to the next higher level. Remember, he got attracted to another woman before so a few incidents of neglect might push him to another woman's arms again. This you have to try to avoid. Good luck to you.
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@Archie0 (5652)
27 Jun 16
I think you are right that if I ignore him it might push him back to her. I try my best to be his best friend and a good lover.. But I get scared what if tomorrow the girl comes back into his life
@sofssu (23662)
27 Jun 16
sounds complicated ..be doubly sure before you make the plunge.
@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
12 Jul 16
@sofs is right.Keep your mind and eyes open and be careful before proceeding further.
@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
27 Jun 16
just try to avoid her. Everything is fair in war and love.
@Umesh_K (676)
27 Jun 16
You believe in yourself, he has chosen you over anyone else. So, just be you