My little girl resist the kindergarten
By RachelZou
@Rachelzou (21)
Liaoning, China
July 3, 2016 9:02pm CST
There is a problem that bothering me for six months,I still cannot find a good and effective way to solve it.My little girl goes to kindergarten for half a year,during these 180days,every morning,I really mean ever morning,she cried,shouted,refuse to go,begging me for staying at home.After arriving to school,she's still crying for more than half an hour,and being unhappy for the whole day.Four months later ,she stopped crying in school,but still at home until this morning. I have tried all my best,telling her that I love her,how to make friends,be kind. I try to stand forward Picking her up after school to make sure she could see me easily.Sometime I just let her cry,coz I know she could nor hear anything,but all turns out to be useless.Now I early have no idea,and don't know when she could stop crying for going school.
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@Genipher (5405)
• United States
5 Jul 16
Is it mandatory that she go to kindergarten?
Here in the U.S. (well, it might vary state-to-state) but children aren't required to attend school until they're 6 or 7.
Some kids mature more slowly than others. Maybe your daughter needs a little extra time before going to school?
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@Rachelzou (21)
• Liaoning, China
6 Jul 16
Not mandatory,but kids around all go to school at their 2or 3,latest at 4.But most becouse she is too naughty,and spend most of time to be with me,we want her to know more people and get the ability that how to get along with others apart from family members.
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
6 Jul 16
Take her to a play school instead of kindergarten and see if she changes her behavior. Kids develop differently and it is obvious that your child cannot handle being away from you at her age. This should change in time but all the emotional stress she is suffering from crying won't help her in the long run.
Hope things work out fine for you and your daughter.
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
11 Jul 16
@Rachelzou good to know.
Soon, she will be the one who wants to go to school.
@Rachelzou (21)
• Liaoning, China
6 Jul 16
It s getting better now,she will get over it someday
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@Letranknight2015 (52090)
• Philippines
4 Jul 16
that whining will end once your little kid started having friends or seeing a first time crush at school.
@Rachelzou (21)
• Liaoning, China
5 Jul 16
She has some friends,always tell me that she missed them on weekend,but once Monday came,she begins to cry as usual 
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@Letranknight2015 (52090)
• Philippines
5 Jul 16
@Rachelzou maybe it's her thing to cry all the time? or she just hate the teachers
@lovelymom (41)
• Tianjin, China
4 Jul 16
It is really a problem! This is a problem that so many parents have to face and solve. Please insist sending her to school and don't give up. I believe that she could stop crying for school one day.
@dyno10 (344)
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12 Aug 16
It probably has something to do with the school - a teacher there that's mean to her or is just too rough or the kids bully her or just something that happened at school that kinda freaked her out. Or she just not want to leave her mom's side.
PS; she's such a cute child.
