The tears of the old men and women are the silent curses
@sunilmishra7756 (4263)
Moradabad, India
July 7, 2016 3:13am CST
The silent curses are more effective than spoken curses.our grand mothers and grand fathers are much more respectable than our fathers and mothers because they love grandsons and daughters more.Their love is showered upon grand children as gentle rain in the summer.Some persons do not give even food to eat their mothers and fathers. It is a matter of great shame for them. They do not know that their children are also going to follow them.
When we are grown and married we forget the love of that mother and father who did not sleep the whole night for your little pain. The cattle are better than those persons who send their parents to old age home.
It is also a matter of great shame that in some families ,they are being still misbehaved.
When a mother lives at old age home how can a son and his wife eat the food peacefully?It is beyond my understanding how do they do like that ? even with their real mother and father. The parents do not hesitate in giving bread to their 5 children but the 5 children can not give the bread to 2 mother and father.All the persons are not same but this fact can not be denied.
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@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
7 Jul 16
This discussion is in context to the culture of this region....where men never actually grow up and are all mama's boys
Do cattle take care of their elderly?
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@vandana7 (100616)
• India
7 Jul 16
Oh...they don't? I have known one who made 80 year old father get down from the jeep and walk home because the old man could not prevent sale of his flat which the boy eventually hoped to own. While it is not old age home for the couple, this treatment is unnerving. Old man walking on the road...alone...My father is 82, I couldn't think of doing that whatever be our differences and however little we were in contact with each other. I think values are inculcated at a very young age. Which values are praised in the child makes the child continue with them. Some come by observation, others from books.
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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)
• Moradabad, India
7 Jul 16
Hora fugit--
If it does not happen in your region ,it is an admirable thing.But if you have ever gone to Mathura and at some other places ,you can see the old age homes where the waiting eyes for family always watch the path for their children.please feel the pain of such lelpless persons who get hardly the one time meal only.This is really a heart rending situation.The number and the members of the old age homes are increasing continuously.
Thank you so much.
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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)
• Moradabad, India
7 Jul 16
@vandana7
You have seen with your own eyes the condition of an old man. But it has also been seen that some persons murder their mother or father or both only for the sake of property.This thing should be checked immediately. The society should excommunicate such a person.
Thank you very much for a good response.
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@sunilmishra7756 (4263)
• Moradabad, India
7 Jul 16
The aged persons in a family are the shields for a family.They are the most unfortunate persons who do not serve their parents and grand parents.Without parents or grand parents , we could not be possible in the world.
We should not cut those hands that feed us.They should be given more respect than any other family member.
Before teasing the old family members, we should think again and again that we are also tomorrow's grand parents.
As we sow so shall we reap, it is a law of Nature.