5 Days Suspension Of My Students Caught In The Act Of Kissing During The Exam Day
@cacay1 (83406)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 14, 2016 7:23am CST
It happened yesterday during the exam day.Two students did not get the test questionnaires though their names were called based on their permit shown. They seemed deaf due to their happiness sitting elbow to elbow, and without their notice, I went nearer to them passing the opposite direction only to get shock of their action kissing lips to lips.
All their classmates were too serious and in deep thinking how to solve the problems in test, only to have these two students doing public scandal. I instructed them to leave the room and got their school ID and wrote an incident report to dean of discipline.I went to dean of discipline's office this afternoon and was informed that these students were on 5 days suspension and have their parents to report to that office to know the cause of their suspension.
I feel the agony of the parents this time.They have to know for they might wonder why their son or daughter does not go to school.
What shall you do if they are your son or daughter? Are you going to punish them?
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@cacay1 (83406)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
14 Jul 16
The scandal there is their classmates all eyes on them, and this is Philippines not a liberated country like America and your country.There is also a memo sent to their student council no PDA in the campus, how much more in class during the exam with 65 students?
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
15 Jul 16
@MALUSE .. In the Filipino culture, kissing or even just holding hands in public especially in the classrooms is considered a scandal ..
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
15 Jul 16
@cacay1 What does PDA stands for? .. I'm a bit lost .. lol ..
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@topffer (42156)
• France
14 Jul 16
You remind me when the headmistress asked me to remove a sticker on my schoolbag saying "make love not war"
. I was about 10 years old ; it bugged me and I complained to my parents.
There was not any rule in my high school against kissing, at least outside the classrooms. I suppose that during an exam it would perhaps have been worth 2 detention hours, but certainly not a 5 days suspension.
Seriously, why have you not just separated them 
?
. I was about 10 years old ; it bugged me and I complained to my parents.
There was not any rule in my high school against kissing, at least outside the classrooms. I suppose that during an exam it would perhaps have been worth 2 detention hours, but certainly not a 5 days suspension.
Seriously, why have you not just separated them ?1 person likes this
@cacay1 (83406)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Jul 16
@MALUSE You are not there to see the situation about the space of the room 2 sections merging.You won't be heard if you will whisper or demonstrate for there eyes are on them,not to me. I already told the students to transfer to other Math teacher.
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@yungluck777 (15)
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15 Jul 16
I don't think they need to get suspended but they could have talk to a guidance counselour.
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@cacay1 (83406)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Jul 16
That is one school's policy,so others won't follow.
@cacay1 (83406)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Jul 16
@yungluck777 ,if not many will be contaminated and they may reach to the extreme point of their relationship in the campus.
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
It is really inappropriate to do such actions because a school is a place for studying and not for doing something intimate with bf/gf. I hope their parents will be able to discipline them in a way that they will not do it again especially in a place like a school. They are still in the Philippines and not in other countries.
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@cacay1 (83406)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Jul 16
That is true friend, it is not a culture in Philippines do kissing inside the classroom. I hope they learned a lesson out of their action.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32693)
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jul 16
I lost my virginity at school. I was thankful me and my exgirlfriend were not caught because our lives might have been ruined or worst we might have been forced to get married.
@cromainer (218)
• Philippines
15 Jul 16
I felt sad for them. I wish they see each other as an inspiration to pursue their studies not as doing public display of affection. I don't know how to react on that issue if I were the parent. Maybe request the school to send them separately.
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@cacay1 (83406)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Jul 16
It will be better for the parents to transfer one of them to other school next semester avoid temptations, but I surely believe that these two already made an act done only by married couple.
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
15 Jul 16
I would be very disappointed if my child is doing something else in the classroom disrupting his exams..
Were these two young lovers told the rules before they sat down for the exams?.. Here in Australia, things like that wouldn't be dealt that way.. It would be discreetly discussed between the students to avoid further embarrassment..
But it's different over there of course ..
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@cacay1 (83406)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Jul 16
@epiffanie, that is true , ours here is different, conservative country. The action of my students are distasteful.
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
14 Jul 16
OMG, I can't answer you on how to do it if I'm one of the parents of those suspended student. I haven't experience such situation to my sons but in case they are one of them, I still advise and help him/her what to do or I might reprimand him or he might be grounded
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@cacay1 (83406)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
14 Jul 16
@ida123, I hope their parents are not having hyper,or else, something bad happens.That was really a bad scene.The students laughed in mockery. They said that they are living together without parents knowledge.They will surely egret when they will have a baby and no money to support.
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@cacay1 (83406)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Jul 16
This is Philippines and it's not part of the school curriculum too much freedom granted for the students like kissing inside the classroom.They already know the policies of the school and posted outside the guard's gate NO PDA inside the campus, how much more to kissing lips to lips? They are shameless beings.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
14 Jul 16
I will talk with them and tell them to be serious in their studies for their own future.
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@rina110383 (24492)
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15 Jul 16
Those students deserve a 5-day suspension.
If those or any one of them is my child, I'll make sure they will be punished physically. I won't give them money and let them clean the house, do the laundry, iron clothes, and do all chores during their 5-day suspension. I won't give them allowance until I see that they have reformed. I'll throw their books on their faces. It would be a disrespect for me since I work hard just to send him/her to school. They deserve ti be spanked.
I hate lazy students who don't prioritize their studies and put to waste their parents' efforts in sending them to school.
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@JudyEv (339496)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Jul 16
That does seem a very tough punishment but I guess they know the rules.
