Alone in the city

United States
July 21, 2016 2:40am CST
I am living alone in the city, going to work alone, sleeping alone, eating alone, working alone, sometimes I feel lonely, I do not like this city.
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jaishankar
@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jul 16
@hongdouzi,I know what you feel.I had had the same feelings when I was in another city that was alien to me.We human beings like to live in a company.
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@hongdouzi (26)
• United States
21 Jul 16
thank you, a same feeler from another city of another country.
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Jabo
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
21 Jul 16
I'm so sorry that you feel like that, it can be hard to meet new people in a strange city. There are plenty of people here on myLot that will befriend you if you reach out to us. Just interact and tell us a bit more about yourself.
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@hongdouzi (26)
• United States
21 Jul 16
Thank you, jabo, if we're in the same city, I would like to have some coffees or teas with you.
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Jabo
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
21 Jul 16
@hongdouzi That would be good, but unfortunately we have the Atlantic Ocean between us
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joy
@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
21 Jul 16
i felt the same few years ago and it took me almost 3yrs to get out of there. It was work and there wasnt any better options for me.
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Dominique
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
21 Jul 16
It's not always easy meeting new people and making friends. Hopefully you are able meet new people soon.
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sishy7
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
21 Jul 16
Did you just move there? Perhaps you will make friends from work or your neighborhood eventually and you won't be too lonely...
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@hongdouzi (26)
• United States
21 Jul 16
@sishy7 thank you, dear sishy7
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Jade Platypus
@JadePlatypus (234)
• Australia
21 Jul 16
I hope you can find a hobby or interest that allows you to meet other people. Even if you are mostly comfortable on your own, the fact that you work alone as well as live alone could be a problem. Do you have hobbies that you could join a club, maybe that meets once a week?
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hello
@hongdouzi (26)
• United States
21 Jul 16
I am just so tired of making money in a city I dont like, mental exhaustion. As you said that you work alone as well as live alone could be a problem, but I really do not know what to do,
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ladiesofindia
@debolinac (110)
• Greater Noida, India
24 Jul 16
Being alone is terribly difficult. Try and reach out and make friends from your workplace .. it will make your life easier
hello
@hongdouzi (26)
• United States
24 Jul 16
thank you.
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Ritu
@Ritu96 (897)
• Sonipat, India
21 Jul 16
it will be nice if u find ur colleagues to be with u at least for some part of the day.loneliness brings sadness.isn't it?/