Can a Man be raped

@jbaraka (252)
Nairobi, Kenya
July 21, 2016 6:02pm CST
Hi friends, I have been following on the news and an interesting thing just happened. It was a case of a man who was raped. A discussion has erupted between me and my wife. One saying its possible while the other opposing. Please give your thoughts. Can a man be raped?
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
22 Jul 16
Of course a man can be raped. I'm struggling to understand why anyone would think a man couldn't be raped
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
Many people don't seem to understand how. Just because the man is the one to do it they feel its not rape.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
3 Aug 16
Ignorance, apparently.
@rina110383 (24492)
22 Jul 16
Yes. Some inmates were raped by their fellow inmates.
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22 Jul 16
@jbaraka yes it is possible!
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
@annierburnett n how can one prove a woman raped him?
@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
N what about men getting raped by women. Is it possible?
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
22 Jul 16
More likely a fatal attraction like in the movie played by Michael Douglas and Glenn Close "A married man's one-night stand comes back to haunt him when that lover begins to stalk him and his family."
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
22 Jul 16
@jbaraka well that was theme of the movie but of course it wasn't actually rape more like domination but then what is rape but a violent power struggle?
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
@Bluedoll it becomes a hard task proving rape. N can a man stand n say a woman raped me?
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
Interesting. N how can a man prove he was raped by a woman?
@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
29 Jul 16
It depends . . what I believe is if a man is raped by a woman . . it is not rape. If a man is raped by a man; it is rape.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
30 Jul 16
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
2 Aug 16
@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Jul 16
That's true
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
I'd say depends, but yea a man can be raped both anally from fellow inmates in prison or other maniacs, and from a woman too. JJ said it, if a man becomes sexualy stimulated that doesn't mean that he actually WANTS it to happen. But i think most of the cases men being raped is by another men, not women.
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• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
@jbaraka Exactly my friend!
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@dyno10 (344)
24 Jul 16
Yup.. A man can definitely be raped..
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Jul 16
By another man yes what of a woman?
@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Jul 16
@dyno10 yea that's true but becomes tricky proving it. If you not careful the case turn against the man.
@dyno10 (344)
24 Jul 16
@jbaraka even by women
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
22 Jul 16
Yes everyone can be raped nowadays, even animals was getting raped too
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
For animals yes. N what of man by a woman
22 Jul 16
yes a man can be raped.
@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
N how would one prove that in court that a woman raped a man?
• Philippines
22 Jul 16
No one's going to believed it. I mean, indecent proposal was hard to believed, how much more in reality.
@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
Its hard to believe
• United States
23 Jul 16
When I think of rape, I think of someone being held down against their will, and although it can happen, I can't really see it happening to a man, who is normally stronger than a woman. He would need three women holding him down for her to do that to him.
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
23 Jul 16
So one is not able to
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
22 Jul 16
A discussion erupted between you and wife. Who won?
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
She still stands with an idea that man cannot be raped by a woman.
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Jul 16
Rape is a common occurrence in prison.
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Jul 16
In prison yes cos men r overpowered and sodomized or other acts are done to them. What of a man suffering the same from a woman. Can there be rape from woman to a man?
@theBlock (2657)
• United States
22 Jul 16
@jbaraka Yes, of course. Men get raped quite often in prison.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Jul 16
the fact that he complained, that means the suspect did it against his will. Anyway, in our country, its not only penetration that defines the rape.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
22 Jul 16
There were some Filipino men who were raped in Saudi Arabia. That is man to man. Some of them became mentally ill because of the trauma. Some were imprisoned because they killed the rapist in defense of themselves.
@shamish (202)
22 Jul 16
Yes. It all depends on his emotions. So emotion black mail will make this successful.
22 Jul 16
Yes,but it's rare.
@RitzzView (3038)
• India
9 Sep 16
Yes, a male gender could be raped. When it comes to rape, the victim has no specification of gender, age, background, etc. Sad truth!
@rubyriaz007 (4188)
• India
27 Nov 17
Yes, a man can be raped.Having forced intimacy with a man is rape.