Thank You Mylotters For Your Superb Advise To My Cousin,It's Your Advise She Takes
@cacay1 (83614)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 23, 2016 9:17am CST
Thank you so much great mylotters in this site. I copy and paste your suggestions here for my cousin whose heart is breaking due to the infidelity of her husband.The one I mean is my cousin I thought did not remember me.I already cited the reason in my other post why my cousin did not mind me .
This morning before I left for my other school,scheduled every Saturday, I handed to my cousin Almira copies of your very valuable, strong, and superb suggestions. I told her the source of the numerous advise/ suggestions come from you ,who are writers and bloggers all over the world . She hugged me and sobbed again.She promised me to read all your suggestions faithfully.
When I arrived home this evening , my cousin was at home waiting me smilingly. It seems she was awaken from her deep sleep. Her answer is, she will never accept back her husband. She told me that it's your suggestions that made her strong not to allow her see back the shadow of their shattered past. She said that yes, you are all right, that her husband's presence may always remind her of her struggles, heartaches, injury and pain the time her husband left her and their son and preferred the other woman.
Thank you friends for your kind heart and superb advise. My cousin flies back to Saipan tomorrow.Her plane departs from domestic airport at 8:00 in the morning .
I will miss her again, but feel happy that my cousin brings back home your LOVE.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
24 Jul 16
Glad that the myLot community has helped your cousin. Also glad that your cousin managed to do what is right. Make she remain strong in the face of this adversity.
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 16
@allen0187, yes friend she told me that she has realized her faults too for not striking her right her refusal to take back her husband. I am so sure her husband will have pop corn tears and nose bleed.
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 16
@jaboUK That is true, the husband has a heart hard as a stone, for he has the courage to return to his wife and son. He has thick face shameless. It was not easy to carry those burden for almost 2 years.Now the pain is almost healed, it may begin again after the begging of the husband to take him back. At least she has a brave heart after the strong suggestions and advise from the Mylotters. Thanks all.
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 16
@jaboUk, it's okay my dear. What matters is my cousin has finally decided whether to accept back her husband or not.Through the influence of the very strong suggestions of the mylotters here, my cousin decided not to allow her husband to come back to her life again. Their son does not know him for he left their son months old for another woman.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
24 Jul 16
At last, so nice for myLot friends who made the wise suggestions; she was unburdened and you too! That man should really learn his lesson; karma is in the works against him; at least your cousin would be light-hearted thinking she could pardon him but will not go back to him.
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 16
@acelawrites, , Yes friend, she is now with a light heart, the torn was pulled by your strong and effective advise.I told her she could join mylot so she could have a second home where she could find many nice people like you. I am so happy seeing my cousin happy.Finally she can have nice rest. She brought with her copies of your suggestion.Kudos to all.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
24 Jul 16
@cacay1 you did great too in approaching her; we are so happy we had helped her. Your idea to ask her to join myLot is so good.
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
Oh my, I hope your cousin didn't mad me because of my advice. Its the other way around my advise.
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@ilocosboy, hehehe, no of course, al least she can weigh everything.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
23 Jul 16
I'm so glad your cousin has made the right decision for herself! 
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 16
@MissNikki , Yes Nikki, superior mylotters help my cousin decide well.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
24 Jul 16
@cacay1 That is so great to hear.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
23 Jul 16
It is great to hear that myLot has helped someone your cousin so much.
It is a great place for that and you were so kind to relay the suggestions to her Erly.
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 16
@Tiaras OceanView, yes friend, I posted it here help for my disturbed cousin.She needs big heads to stop her fromn drowning. She left our place with mind and heart full of hope and happiness for she finally found answer on her problem whether to accept her husband back or not after two years leavig her and their months old son for another woman.he wants to reconcile now beacuse the mistress left him after knowing he is sick with prostate cancer. I am so thankful of the very strong suggestions of the mylotters. Thank you mylot and its Mylotters.Kudos.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
27 Jul 16
@cacay1 Oh so the mistress is not interested in him because he is sick. That is typical.
@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
24 Jul 16
i 'twas so glad to read this, hon. 'n hope that she keeps that, somehow gathers some strength'n support when she might be tempted to waiver. 'tis hard to turn yer back'n someone when they're'n need. but, not's hard's lettin' 'em back into yer life to stomp'n ya all o'er 'gain. big hugs!!
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 16
@just4him, yes my dear. The words of the mylotters as advise and suggestion to my cousin are so strong that my cousin was able to wake up from her deep sleep and long silence.At least she is not anymore a prisoner of her stupid feeling.
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 16
@Ladyluck15, yes sis, true and i am happy that you all contributed help to my cousin that seemed saving her life from a possible cruelty again by her husband.What if her husband just played a drama.
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@cacay1 (83614)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 16
Yes dear, finally she has able to console herself through your superb suggestions.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
25 Jul 16
Oh why did i miss that post of yours . Maybe because i hardly have time to read all your posts . 
But anyway , i am happy she followed those advises here by our fellow myLotters . She knows that they spoke from experience which is the best teacher .
But anyway , i am happy she followed those advises here by our fellow myLotters . She knows that they spoke from experience which is the best teacher . 
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
i was wondering about the husband's family, like his parents, siblings, etc. can they not take care of him?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Jul 16
that is great that she listened to the pieces of advice of others
@rachz_kisses (3838)
• Philippines
24 Jul 16
Glad that myLotters helped her decide what's best for her and her marriage.
