On Loving Ourselves

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I remember a friend who once told me that sometimes she does not want to read beauty magazines anymore because it makes her feel ugly! Can you believe that? But that brought laughter to both of us because she made a strong point though I did not agree with how she looks at herself. Have you ever thought that you were not sexy enough or trim enough to wear sexy clothes? Have you ever said to yourself that no one is going to take a second look at you because of your plain looks? DO those things make you feel sad, depressed and sometimes scared to go social? If your answer to those questions are YES, then you have a problem! The belief and concept of not being beautiful towards oneself is a product of low self-esteem and poor regard for oneself. It is such a horrible feeling that makes you withdraw yourself from the outside circle of making friends and developing your personality to its full potentials. We have to consider the factors so we can understand where it is coming from. How you see yourself naturally affects your self-esteem and as a result also affects how you interact with others. You have to build your confidence from within and start loving yourself. You cannot share anything that you do not have. Beauty has many definitions and you should not rely on how others perceive beauty. Start with yourself