Do You Stalk Your "EX"?

@wiLLmaH (8802)
Singapore, Singapore
July 29, 2016 11:26pm CST
My husband have an ex-gf....Then, after my husband (still boyfriend back then) went to Singapore, this ex-gf suddenly moved and rent a house few blocks away from my husband's home and just steps away from their church. She attend Sunday mass in there and greeted my husband's family every after mass. They told me that news but I just let it passed. That was 2010-2011? I think.. When are already here in Singapore that was around 2012.. my closest friend, she is my maiden of honor in our wedding, rang my phone and asked hubby about some details of his ex-gf! She exclaimed “F*@k! I think your ex-gf will be my new housemate”. Coincidence? I open this issue to my mother-in-law and she just tell me not to think about it.. haha! Maybe that girl is going crazy. I friend her in facebook and hopingly she will start a conversation with me. But she don’t. One day, she posted that she and his new boy is at Plantation Bay in Cebu. On my surprise, that was the exact date we were there a year ago. Scary! I posted in my wall about “There is no such thing as coincidence”. Then she blocked me in FB. Haha! On that, I make a conversation with my husband. I insisted for him to have a simple dinner with his past. Maybe she need some closures in her part. My husband rejected that idea of mine. Photo: From Google
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Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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30 Jul 16
Haha not in a creepy way but yeah I used to look through facebook images. But now that she has child I stopped looking back. Its better to move on. good for both of us.
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Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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30 Jul 16
@wiLLmaH well it's better to be honest and not lying. because lies pile up and come back in our head.
wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
At least you are very honest in here that your looking on the pictures posted. :)
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jul 16
@skysnap, good boy .
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Pinay Ako
@AkoPinay (11542)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
I will if I am not busy or bored -- for curiosity only. Is she prettier, smarter than me??. But if I am busy I wont waste time for him anymore.
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
Hahaha! I do some checking on my ex-bf's wife too.. But not to the extent that this girl does to my husband. hahah.. I am actuallu thinking that she want her back. hmmm.... what do you think?
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jul 16
@wiLLmaH, Very well said my friend.
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Pinay Ako
@AkoPinay (11542)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
@wiLLmaH I don't know but it shows that she can't move on.
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Morning Girl
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
Well dear,past is past so maybe your husband is not interested at all, and hope you don't get bothered by it especially if you are sure, he has been faithful to you.
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
I am sure he is faithful onto me. :)
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jul 16
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Morning Girl
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
@wiLLmaH That's good to know.
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julito
@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
30 Jul 16
Hmmm, I believe your husband planted a lasting impression on his ex-GF - - something that she could not forget and always craving for it!
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
Naughty are you. Hahaha!
wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
@cacay1 maybe she saw the real value when she is with another guys.
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jul 16
@antonbunot, hehehehehe might be true longing and longing for love that is broken.
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
The easiest way to stalk someone is through FB. If only FB has this 'who viewed my account' button or something. lol
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
Oh yea! Like Friendster... Oh! in friendster, one of her siblings adds me.. When my hubby and and I get together, too many friend request popping up my Friendster then.. hahaha!
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jul 16
@sol_cee that is true, if only hehehe.
@acelawrites
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
She could really annoy you.Your husband was right not to have dinner with her.
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
I cannot see that idea of having a dinner a bad thing to do.. That can clear things up right? What do you think?
Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jul 16
@acelawrites, it is wrong to advise the husband to have a dinner with his ex he already buried in the past.
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@acelawrites
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
It would be good if she has an open mind; if not, it is not advisable to have it, just ignore it.
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Jabo
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
30 Jul 16
Perhaps it really was coincidence, especially since she has found a new boy?
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
31 Jul 16
I am hoping that too Jabo. We are giving her the benefit of the doubt. :)
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jul 16
That ex gf of your husband is a "bobo" , the more that she hurts herself. That might be the reason why your husband left her, she is too possessive and demanding.Do ignore her.Never talk about her in the presence of your husband, the devil might dictate him to dig his past.
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
She is the the one who broke up with my hubby. Then my husband found out that she is seeing another man (her officemate) while they are still together. How she can't move on to that? And she seems happy with her two boyfriends (after her relationship) with hubby.
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Reine25
@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
Uh oh..pretty scary eh
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
16 Aug 16
@cacay1 oh! I forgot. to mention, she is now attending to the church in the same building with my husband's office. Hahaha! To think she lives so far from that area.. hahhaa!
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Aug 16
@wiLLmaH , If I were you, you strike her. Why can't you tell her not to stalk to your husband.You cab blotter that to the police for she might have some bad plans.
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jul 16
That is right, they better distance themselves.
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Megan Val
@meganval (261)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
It's just me or it is really creepy. I is not coincidence obviously. That girl had a problem, she can't move on ,I think so. I hope that it will never happen again. That "coincidence" thing.
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
16 Aug 16
@meganval Oh! I curled my hair and posted it on facebook.. I know she is looking on my facebook too. hahah! Then I saw her posting a picture of her using an app showcasing a new hair. She is validating a claim that it will be a nice to have long hair.. Then on the next day she posted an edited photo of her displaying a bangs. Hehe.. (Di mapakali anong gagagwin sa buhok nya) hahah!
Megan Val
@meganval (261)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
Its just my opinion. I'm sorry.
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Be
@ValueAdder (409)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
Reading the details of your post, I just remembered other people who some similar stories like yours. I admire you for telling your husband to have some closing party with her ex-girlfriend. It's a sign of maturity, and on the other side testing your husband of his reaction probably. It's good that its just the past and you're living a wonderful life with your family, not thinking of what might have been in the past. There are times I remembered the past romance in my life but I know that it was a part of the journey. Keep on and move on. Everything happens for a purpose. I know now that I need to look forward to the future.
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
I want them to settle it but I think my husband is really done with her. we all need to move forward or else past will drag us back down. Other similar stories like mine? So this case is not only one? haha! Many people ding this kind?
Be
@ValueAdder (409)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
@wiLLmaH similar in some areas but not totally the same..
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
@ValueAdder oh ok.., I thought it is fad now.. heheh..
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