He came, he came!

@sol_cee (38219)
Philippines
August 3, 2016 5:59am CST
I don't know with other culture but I grew up believing that the sudden appearance of a butterfly/moth in the house means a relative who passed away came for a visit. Others say it serves as a reminder for those who have forgotten their loved ones in heaven. So this morning, this huge brown of a butterfly/moth (can't tell the difference) greeted me a sunny sunshine. Immediately I knew who it was. August 4th is my grandfather's death anniversary. Though he didn't have to remind me at all because I never forget his day, I was happy for the short visit. He even gamely posed for a picture. Do you have the same experience?
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@AutumnSnow (4583)
3 Aug 16
I have heard of this and I'd always thought this to true and lately I find myself missing my grandparents terribly and the past couple of day there has been these two butterflies that seem to hanging around our front porch.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
Say, where are you from?
@koopharper (7601)
• Canada
3 Aug 16
All we have to do to get moths to visit is leave on a light and leave the door open. We'll have all the moth visitors anyone could ever want.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Aug 16
Oh yes you're becoming honest again. lol But my windows were closed and so was the door.
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@skysnap (20153)
3 Aug 16
Yes in japanese culture it means some spirit is up for visit. In indian culture moth or butterfly are sign of better future. No idea about other culture.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Aug 16
May a butterfly drop by your house anytime soon.
@skysnap (20153)
3 Aug 16
@sol_cee Haha. a just random thought came into mind that butterfly == mothman hope it's not mothman :P
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Aug 16
@skysnap what's a mothman? Did you coin that word?
@sofssu (23662)
4 Aug 16
They always come visiting me.. Butterflies more than moths. Nope we don't have such beliefs here. But I have had butterflies sit on my hands and face and once on my son's head.
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@sofssu (23662)
6 Aug 16
@sol_cee Lol would you have?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
You didn't sit on them, did you?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
6 Aug 16
@sofssu They're always above me. Out of reach. So far.
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• United States
4 Aug 16
'tis a beaut! big hugs'n the passin' 'f yer grand, hon. i fear i've not 'd such come to visit me to mark such :( but've heard similar.
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• United States
4 Aug 16
@sol_cee bless her heart many folks believe that horses 're only 'good' 'til they're 'bout 10 years'f age. mainly coz they've injured 'em whilst all their bones were still knittin' (some breeds, particularly large breeds, that can be 7 years)
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• United States
4 Aug 16
@sol_cee there's various reasons fer a horse to cross o'er that rainbow bridge. natural causes such's'n aneurysm, severe case 'f twisted gut, stones, kidney disease, ulcers 'n the like. some make't to the ripe ol' age 'f 42 ( i believe that's the eldest i've heard'f anyhow). most folks don't seem to realize that they can live a long, productive life :)
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
@crazyhorseladycx my daughter's asking why 42. Why not 43. Or 44.
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@Genipher (5405)
• United States
4 Aug 16
When I was a kid we had an infestation of teeny moths. They were living in our food closet. Mom had to vacuum them up every night, dump a bunch of infested food, and switch to containers with tight lids. We must've been pretty blessed! On a lighter note, I've never heard that about moths before. Do you know where the story came from? That's a pretty moth. We don't have 'em that good-looking here.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
@Genipher attagirl!
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@Genipher (5405)
• United States
4 Aug 16
@sol_cee A tad!
@shaggin (72131)
• United States
3 Aug 16
I am glad this made you feel good :-) This is not a belief where I am but I've heard cardinals in our yards in a visit from a loved one in heaven.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
Cardinals are not monarchs? And I love this butterfly talk.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
3 Aug 16
I don't. But how I wish it were true so every time a butterfly or butterflies would visit my home, it would make me feel good to think they were my parents.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
@sol_cee Thanks. Mom's birthday this month.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Aug 16
Two beautiful butterflies are on your way.
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
@toniganzon Happy birthday to mom!
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Aug 16
I have never heard of that before but I think it's pretty amazing. =) I'm glad it made you happy too.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
Now you can observe if this happens to you too.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
3 Aug 16
No we don't have that belief here, but I'm pleased if thinking it was your grandfather brought you comfort.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Aug 16
It made me smile all day.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Aug 16
My husband does believe that also, he said to that big butterflymoth, thanks for visiting me Papa or Mama.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Aug 16
That's sweet. Thanking a butterfly and calling it papa/mama.
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
4 Aug 16
Since my husband passed away, people have told me all sorts of signs to look out for. I've never had any of them happen to me. And yet I can feel when my husband's spirit is around me. It's all very strange. Who knows what's real and what isn't?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
Sad to hear about your husband's demise. I remember waking up in the middle of the night with my mom crying after dad passed away.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
@CRK109 That's so sad. I can feel you Claudia and I worry about mom.
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
4 Aug 16
@sol_cee It's never easy to lose someone you love. And it never gets easier no matter how old you get. So we remember them, remember the laughter and the best days and keep them alive in our hearts. And smile for whatever signs we are blessed enough to get.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Aug 16
I believed this. That one is huge. Mine are two white butterflies. They are flying around me then flew awa out of my room. I wonder who they are. I just pray for whoever they are.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Aug 16
Very big indeed Bhem. And look at the intricate detail on its body too.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Aug 16
@sol_cee It's beautiful Sol.
@Hanyouyomi (2187)
• Dallas, Texas
4 Aug 16
@sol_cee Y'know it's kinda sad.. But thanks to you, I now know why butterflies are used in the anime "Bleach" to signify the coming of a shinigami or transfer a soul to the afterlife... And I've been a Bleach fan for eleven years... Curse my American ignorance...
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
Soul reapers. It also became a hit in my country and I've watched a few episodes.
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
5 Aug 16
@Hanyouyomi Too harsh on yourself. lol
• Dallas, Texas
4 Aug 16
@sol_cee Yeah, but I should've figured that out, as a lot of manga creators tend to draw inspiration from Japanese lore, beliefs, and history... So I should've figured that the butterflies in Bleach were based off of a Japanese belief... I'm so slow at times! Dx
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@hoong143 (1397)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 16
Last time, my grandmother also told me about this. But, I don't believe it. I just think that it is a visitor here and I welcome them.
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
5 Aug 16
No I would chase him out if he came into my house. lol
@jstory07 (139717)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Aug 16
I have never had an experience like that.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
I believe you.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Aug 16
I've never heard that before, but it's so nice to believe. Hugs!
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
Warms the soul and spooks the faint hearted. lol
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Aug 16
No, never have. I haven't heard that superstition before.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
The secret is out. lol
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@zaguguina (136)
• Rehovot, Israel
4 Aug 16
interesting belief :) I'll keep that in mind
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
I'll ask you about this belief next month. lol