Sometimes it is hard to find good friends

@ajithlal (14716)
India
August 7, 2016 11:32am CST
It is always hard to find good friends and sometimes it is hard to maintain them. Do you have good friends and do you have good relationship with your friends?
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
9 Aug 16
I have good friends most of them online. Lately my friendships are gone I don't know why. I truly care about my friends. I assume they think I could care less about them but I'm trying hard to make it all work but they just disappeared.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
9 Aug 16
I hope you are able to balance your friendship with your work.
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
10 Aug 16
@ajithlal thank you, I hope so.
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
You are definitely right about having or finding good friends. It is already a rare occurrence where you can easily find what you can call a good friend. However, it is how you defined what you call "good friends" that will set the parameter for finding him or her. Do you mean a good friend is one who can be loyal or faithful to your friendship? Or is it someone who can lend you money when you need it? Or is it someone who can spend their time with you in crying moments or trying times? I would like to have a faithful friend. A lot of times, some people find solace in having animal friends like dogs. I hope and pray I'll find a few who I call the inner-circle friends.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
10 Aug 16
I also find it is hard to find good friends and it do take a lot of effort.
@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
7 Aug 16
One of my best friends I have known for 50 year and although we live very different lives now, when I speak to her on the phone it's just as if we were back at school together, nothing really changes in the way we can speak to each other. Friends come and go throughout life but occasionally you may find a friendship that lasts forever.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
10 Aug 16
Yes I have also found friends occasionally who really care.
@rina110383 (24492)
8 Aug 16
Yep, but only few of them, like less than five (5) good friends.
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@meganval (261)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
Yes it's really hard to find good friends. Just be who you really are and if you really have true friends they will stay in good and bad times. I'm really lucky and I have good and true friends.
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@NorthenG (28)
• United States
7 Aug 16
Good question. Good posting. I had a close friend who did betray me.
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@durgabala (1360)
• India
8 Aug 16
Yes, it is hard to find good friends, and for that you have to be too good. I have a bunch of good friends and I do keep in touch with them by regularly texting and calling them. We never miss to wish on birthdays and on other imp occasions.
@skysnap (20153)
7 Aug 16
The trick is not finding good but just enjoy the ride and move on from negative.
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@LeaPea2417 (37388)
• Toccoa, Georgia
7 Aug 16
I have some old friends who I have not kept in touch with. That is sad because it seemed like they were the ones to let the relationship take a back seat. Today, I only have a few that I would call close friends.
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@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
my friends were all gone.. physically, ,.. i mean, they're now in different locations...hope they still remember me coz i never forgotten our friendship..they're all like my brothers and sisters.. haven't called me for quite a long time now.. i missed them