What Are The Challenges In Marriage
@Adeoti (47)
Lagos, Nigeria
August 8, 2016 5:29am CST
Marriage has different challenges which is why some men and women are not ready to get married. To all married men and women, what are the challenges you are facing? How are you coping? And for single ladies and men out there, what are the things that makes you scared of getting married?
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@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
when you get married things will totally change and you will see it's biggest twists everyday of your life together... whether positive or negative.. the two will always come together..
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
8 Aug 16
I am single and marriage talks kind of feel foreign to me. I don't know if I am scared or just don't care much abut the topic. lol It just doesn't seem like an important thing to me.
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@kamruzzaman5ndc (791)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
8 Aug 16
No idea.. Why not you do marry..and find the problems.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Aug 16
@kamruzzaman5ndc , correct!
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@snehakeshri (449)
• Mumbai, India
8 Aug 16
It's a beautifull dream which everyone see but becomes wild when they experience it.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
8 Aug 16
I guess the important thing to remember is that.. just cos you're married doesn't make you 1/2 a person.
I hear a lot of people having to "give up" things just cos they got married. Like taking the job they want, going on a vacation they want, etc etc
All of these, IMO should still be doable whether you're married or not. Marriage shouldn't hinder you from living the life you want. If it does, it's not fair on you, and it's not fair on the Marriage (gets blamed for it).
I believe as an individual, you are responsible for your own happiness whether in or out of a relationship. It's not anyone else's job to make you happy in a relationship. After all, happy people go ahead to have happy relationships, not the other way around.
Also, it is important to remember sometimes, a bad relationship is exactly that! a bad relationship. Marriage or not, if all it does is make you unhappy, then it's time to get out.
@Shiva49 (26686)
• Singapore
8 Aug 16
In traditional societies men were expected to work and support the family.
It was okay with me and my wife when I got married nearly forty years ago.
Now both are working and trouble starts when wife is earning more.
These are realities of life - siva
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@ValueAdder (409)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
As you have mentioned, challenges abound in all areas of life. This includes the unmarried men and women in the world. The most common challenges for both married and the unmarried includes, but not limited to: relationship challenges, financial challenges, health challenges, and many others. Marriage has its advantages and disadvantages like being single. What matters most if how the individuals make it work for the good of all.