relatives vs friends
By tiibbaamm
@tiibbaamm (613)
Indonesia
39 responses
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
26 Nov 06
I wouldn't mix bussiness with family/friends either, however I would perhaps like to start a bussiness with my mom; but just a small one and nothing really professional or anything. For a big bussiness and your lifes' work I would not choose to work with family and friends, because when things start to look ugly you can't give them a better position but you will have a hard time telling them if something is wrong.
@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 06
i am running business with my mom. but that's it, no one else.
i agree, it does give you hard time to tell the bad news to them. thx!
@snowflake5 (1579)
• United States
25 Nov 06
Neither - get a professional manager in, whose employment is governed by contract. That way, if he does anything untrustworthy, you can take him to court. It's a bad idea to mix business with family/friendship
@niranjans87 (1077)
• India
26 Nov 06
Well if you know your friends really well then you know who your true friends are and they can always be trusted.....so I would rather choose my friends than my relatives....especially knowing the kind of people my relatives are....It would be great if someone related to you can also be your friend.....
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@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 06
i know what you mean..
i'm also not that close to my relatives.
especially from my father's side.
there was only 1 family of relative that i trust the most, and that's it.
@emarie (5442)
• United States
26 Nov 06
it would depend on who your reletives are, and who your friends are. age and experience. i would use those facts to determine if i'm able to leave my business in their hands. business is business..and unless they are experienced in running a business or management, i don't think i would trust them running it.
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@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 06
i would also concider that myself..
but needs alot of thinking to do.
@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 06
well..don't really know about that one. sounds kind of risky.
but thx 4 rsponding!
@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
26 Nov 06
yeah..
family matters could be solved with other relatives without interfierence trom others.
@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
9 Dec 06
thx..i know what u mean.
i also rather talk to my friends then my relatives if it's concerning my secret.
@dandungsugiharto (883)
• Greece
26 Nov 06
business is still business. I'll choose people that match with my prinsipal of business, also have the same mission & vision, no matter they're relatives or friends
@madanlohar (1162)
• India
9 Dec 06
i will trust on my friend. Actually i started a bussiness with one of my close relative but he cheated me after that i deside i will never do business with partnership, but one of my friend force me he told me just trust him once if he dont like his partnership then do what u think better. so i start with him n till today we r partners
@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
9 Dec 06
that is a very valuable experience..
i would also think like you do if my relatives cheated on me..
@infogan234 (720)
• India
9 Dec 06
Neither of them if not trustworthy, If I had no option then it wil be friends
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
8 Dec 06
Though I am in job, but if I prefer business, I would like to trust to run the business with friends only, not with relatives.
@Akshay7777 (286)
• India
8 Dec 06
i think friends r more turst worth thn ,,,relatives ,,relatives can often cheat but we have close attraction with friends ///