A crazy experience with a lady whom I thought to be a Wonderful Friend

@waflay (2737)
Nairobi, Kenya
August 13, 2016 9:19am CST
This lady was once my neighbor and a friend who was living with her cousin.She was also my college mate and we did most of our things together as casual friends including paying each other visits.She at one time told me that she has feelings for me but I did not take this with any seriousness because to me she was like a sister. So one day she called me, asking my assistance to move her wardrobe as she tried a new house arrangement.Little did I know that they had some other plans with her cousin that such once inside,her cousin jumped closing the door from outside and then left.This lady then frankly told me that she just wanted to have some privacy with me so that we could enjoy our moment together as lovers. I had to man up because she had already started pulling me towards her and I told her if she thought tricking me to assist her move a wardrobe which was a lie could make me get inside her box,she ought to know she was already very wrong.I also made it clear ours was just a casual friendship but not love and I ordered to call her cousin to open up or she would regret what I was about to do. She had no otherwise but to own up to my demands for she had never seen me talking that tough.Oops! She was never the same towards me. Did I do something Wrong?
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@skysnap (20153)
13 Aug 16
That's some experience there. I don't think you did anything wrong.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
13 Aug 16
This is just one experience where I would prefer for the friendship to die than being forced into something that you feel is wrong.
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@skysnap (20153)
13 Aug 16
@waflay yeah true that.
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• Bangalore, India
14 Aug 16
You were straight forward in what you did. Nothing wrong in that
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Aug 16
I knew it but she saw the enemy in me and yet our friendship had value because we were used to helping one another.
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
14 Aug 16
so.. you weren't even together and she made a move on you? that's quite shocking, but i think it was right to tell her and not just give in
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
13 Aug 16
You can't pretend to feel love where there is none. You did nothing wrong at all, but I can quite understand that things can't be the same as they were.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
14 Aug 16
A lucky escape there, if you ask me - rearranging a lady's furniture can be more than a moving experience.
14 Aug 16
You didn't done anything wrong. What you did is right because you didn't take you friendship for granted.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Aug 16
There are some experiences that you may be faced with,somehow compromising situations but you still have yourself to take control of everything.
@shaggin (72131)
• United States
13 Aug 16
Wow that is crazy that she basically tried to force you. I think you showed a lot of self-respect saying no. Sad how it ruined the friendship though. She should have just talked to you about how she felt to see how you felt instead of lying to you.
@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
13 Aug 16
For her you did something wrong for not loving her. But for you, you didn't done wrong to her. You did it right for telling her straight to her eyes that you didn't love her.
@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
14 Aug 16
One can lose our moorings easily when it is a case of blind love or one sided one. It is tough to accept rejection. But what they did to you was wrong and not on - siva