Still Single and Not Available

August 13, 2016 9:59am CST
Well I tell you that I am already 21 years old and still single since birth. But I am not available anymore since I like a girl so much. I think she already captured me with her kindness. The sad part here is that I do not know if she also like me. I think I am the only one who have feelings to her. It is already two years that I have a feeling to her and still I didn't tell her that I like her. I am a serious lover so I want to be prepared first so that I can show her that I can live with her. Is it right if I still keep my feelings with her?
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@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
13 Aug 16
Whether it's right or wrong is up to you. Personally if I had those sorts of feelings I'd say something as currently you're in no mans land...not going forward or backward. Tell her and see what happens. If she likes you that's good, if she doesn't you can move on. I think doing nothing is not the best option.
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13 Aug 16
I am also thinking about that. Well she lives on the other part of the country and we haven't see each other for a few years. So what I did was I went to her workplace just to see her. I think it is enough to show that I love her. But i think it is better if I really say my feelinga to her. Thanks for that. :)
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@Ujjawal29 (245)
• New Delhi, India
13 Aug 16
Dont drop the i love you bomb. First interact a lot with her. Go out 3 4 times with her first
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@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
13 Aug 16
I'd agree with that
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13 Aug 16
For now it is impossible to go out with her because she is too far. I am thinking to find a job near in her place so that we can meet each other frequently.
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13 Aug 16
@Mike197602 i know it is a non sense problem of mine. But that feeling in which really annoys me. I still keep thinking of her everytime. It keeps me daydream and nightthinking. I feel stressed.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
13 Aug 16
I think its good to grab this opportunity and tell her how you feel and so time is now to make a move.
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16 Aug 16
I don't really have guts to make a move but I will try as soon as possible before its too late.
@skysnap (20153)
13 Aug 16
It's better to tell your real feeliings .. never keep them inside.
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16 Aug 16
Yup. But I don't really have guts to tell her, sad to say.
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• Israel
13 Aug 16
I think that life is short .. If you do not tell her how you feel, She can disappear. Maybe you should find an opportunity to tell her that. Will create an opportunity and not wait for opportunity
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16 Aug 16
I am waiting for an opportunity but you said I have to create an opportunity. Well, I will try. Thanks for that
• Bangalore, India
14 Aug 16
Hey Richie, its almost 2 years and you haven't said her this. By now you will definitely know her well and also what she feels to you. Don't stop yourself. Go for it, lets see what will be the response
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16 Aug 16
Yup. More than 2 years. Maybe i really need to tell her right now. I will tell all of you here what will happen. :)
19 Aug 16
@creativeabhini thanks a lot. :D
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• Bangalore, India
17 Aug 16
@richjohn07 All the best
@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
13 Aug 16
You're wrong in keeping it secret to her. Go and tell her, for you to know if she likes you too. So that you won't be wasting your time liking her if she doesn't like you.
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13 Aug 16
Thanks for that. i should go to her and tell her what I feel. :D
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@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
19 Aug 16
You're still young. Have a house and lot first and have a stable income and I will say yes to you if I were the girl.