I Kind Of Expected His Reaction

@SIMPLYD (90721)
Philippines
August 15, 2016 3:46am CST
Relative to my post below , I didn’t tell my husband right away after it happened because I kind of expected his reaction . And I was right . After relating to him all that happened , he told me “ why on the first place are you alighting there , when the bank where brother works is just less than a minute ride “ . He was annoyed . And I told him I already do that since that incident . And he laughingly told me “stupid” . To which , I retaliated by tickling his right side and he rolled down the bed laughing . Oh what a laugh we had . He would jokingly call me “stupid” when I am clumsy again and I would also, when he forgot something again . It’s our brutal , loving way and joke with each other which can make us laugh out loud , as always . What about your partner , what could be his reaction when you tell him that you also experienced what I did ?
Everyday during weekdays I would always go down a junction where I get a ride to the city proper to our office , while my brother-in-law drives to their...
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@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
So sweet of you two.. i'm smiling while reading your post.. i just thought, how i wish to have such sweet moment.. if that incident happened to me, i'm sure my husband will just tease me or create funny situations with it..
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
Just like what my husband did , after berating me for being "stupid" .
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Aug 16
I like your husband's way of joke when you relate him about that stranger when you alight, his such a carinoso type of person. I'm happy to both of you, keep it up the way you love and care to each other.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
Thank you my friend . And i suppose your hubby is also cariñoso . I think when we are cariñoso our hubbies will also be . Remember , it takes two to tango .
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD Yes, he is and we only both laugh when someone told us that we are like newly wed couples.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@ida123 You know , joking with each other helps a lot in making couples always like newly wed . It strengthens our ties .
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
15 Aug 16
if i did something stupid or bad like hit something with our car my hubby was loving enough to say "are you okay with it? are you alright? " never chastising me for things already done. yes we would laugh and he was very loving and understanding like that. sadly he passed away
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Oh i am sorry to know that your hubby already passed away . But i am happy to know hat he was a loving and funny guy too .
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Aug 16
He is caring and would not want anything bad to happen to you and especially looking at such a situation when a stranger just behaves like he knows more of you.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
Yes, i know . His way annoyingly saying that is his way of implying that he cares .
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
16 Aug 16
My husband would not be happy. Some things he doesn't have to know.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
You mean if you were me , you wouldn't tell him anymore because anyway it is already solved ?
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@DianneN Now i understand . Me, i chose to tell him since it is already solved so he don't have to worry anymore . Because if it is not solved yet , he might go with us and surely he will punch that guy .
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
16 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD I wouldn't want to worry him if there was no problem. He gets extremely worried or upset.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
my lady, that is a very sweet carino brutal. i love the way you both share your concerns to each other, and take any probable problems lightly.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
Yes, cariño brutal indeed , that's what it's called . And i think you have already read before that we would always tickle each other specially when he sees me laughing out loud because of a story he is telling me . And lately this "stupid" joke . He knows that i have handled it myself because i chose to tell him days after it happened . And he knows i would again ask him , why are you angry again so he joked that "stupid" to tell me he isn't .
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD yes, i vividly recall that discussion of yours about being brutally lovable to each other. ahhh! that is love
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
@ridingbet cariño brutal indeed.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
16 Aug 16
Good that you ca both laugh and joke about it and laugh .. but yes, if you feel threatened, always trust your gut feeling ..
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
I never tell my husband a problem i can solve by myself . When it is not solvable , then i let him know . Two heads is better than one . Once done , we can joke about it .
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
15 Aug 16
Awwww! So sweet! (kakakilig) hehe!
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
See, i know him so well . When he says "stupid" laughingly , i know that he is beginning to be funny .
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@wiLLmaH Oh yes, i always hug and kiss him and he would too to me. No age limit for making those loving ways .
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
16 Aug 16
So sweet Ms @SIMPLYD! He deserves a kiss from you :)
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 16
I have read your post and I know that my husband would have not joked about this. I think I would have told nothing to him, because he is very capable to go there and ask the guy what he wants and why he stalks me.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Oh your hubby is the serious type on this kind of thing . I wouldn't also tell him about it because anyway it was solved already if i were in your stead .
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@LadyDuck Me too . My husband is actually a worrier so i avoid those simple things that can make him worry quickly .
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
16 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD I avoid telling him things that can upset him if I can solve them myself.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 16
It's true that we can call each other what we like as long as it's done with love and in fun
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@jaboUK That's good . You both have another way of having fun and banter . We need that to make our marriage a colorful one .
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Yes . It should be accompanied with a wink and laughter . It lightens the situation . And in retaliation tickle the other for having called us that . Do you tickle your husband or vice versa ?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD We don't tickle, but we josh each other - plenty of fun and banter.
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• United States
15 Aug 16
i'm glad that y'all got such worked out 'n were able to laugh 'bout 't later. if'n such'd occurred here, i'd prolly need bail money fer the hubs. yepperz, he'd tracked that fella down 'n no doubt such'd not been purty.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Really , your hubby is like that ? Oh my ! Ain't that super enough for him to let you know that he won't let anybody ever harm you .
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• United States
16 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD yes ma'am. 'f course such'd not be needed coz i'd already dotted both that fella's eyes'n smashed his phone :) the hubs'd prolly learnt such details from the arrestin' officer
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD He rolled down the bed?! With you or without you?
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Without me . But sometimes he would take me with him . But this time , i was able to dodge his hands .
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@antonbunot Tired of supervising the painting of his auntie's room , i think .
@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
16 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD not in the mood, I guess!
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@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
16 Aug 16
I have to read the link first before I can understand what you meant. See you later.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
So , what can you say about this ? he he he
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@thelme55 That's nice of your husband . Hubby would surely go with us , alight with me and once i point to him , he will punch the man . My hubby is so much higher and bigger than that young man .
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@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
16 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD I would have tell him right away and he would say I should be careful and he would ride a bike and observe that person and that person would be scared when he notice that it's hubby.
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@Ujjawal29 (245)
• New Delhi, India
15 Aug 16
Haha. Made my day. Lol
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
I am glad i made you laugh with my post my friend .
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
@Ujjawal29 Thank you for saying that .
• New Delhi, India
15 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD yeah you surely did. We need more posts like this here :p Happy mylotting.
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@skysnap (20153)
15 Aug 16
Currently single but I can imagine
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
NOw, you know how to lovingly joke with your partner .
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@sofssu (23662)
16 Aug 16
My hubs would be a bit concerned If I told him something like that .. he would come up with various alternatives to deal with the situation. He is the more jittery of the two LOL
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
So what happened to your admirer?
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
When we passed by yesterday , he was there again . As we passed the curb , his eyes was already focused on our car . I feel like hiding , but then what the heck he can't do anything anymore because we proceeded to the bank where my brother-in-law works . I was suppressing myself from chuckling because i saw brother-in-law looked at him with tiger eyes when i pointed him . I was thinking , he found him "papa-ble" , because he is good looking and neat , in fairness .
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Aug 16
wow the best way of loving loving.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Correct , my friend . That's our way of teasing each other - saying "stupid" when a clumsy way is done and would tickle each other in retaliation of having been called that .
15 Aug 16
Haha! My husband is very protective of me and my daughters. But I am more the braver one who would be ready to position myself in a defensive mode when something like yours happens to me. :-)
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
15 Aug 16
Really , you are the more braver one when something like this happened to you . That's good . But you know , we women wouldn't go to our husbands outright , if we know we can do something about it .
@dyno10 (344)
16 Aug 16
You have a loving relationship
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Thank you . I guess our being jokers helps a lot in keeping our relationship okay .