Shaming someone online backfires

Philippines
August 15, 2016 10:30pm CST
There was this lady who went complaining on social media face-book about a guy who didn't show chivalry or gave him seat in the train. She thought she will get sympathy, but instead she was backlash with so many insults about her complain. After siding with the guy, they started digging her past, It turns out he's been shaming a lot of people in face-book on every one he encounters. Then one of her former clients showed old messages revealing she was a walker or some sort of prostitute, that made them bash her more. This happened last year too about the same thing and that lady got bashed as well. But this one was a bit legitimate, the guy was even nice enough to apologize and explain he was tired from getting a valid ID. Netizen's didn't agree though and wants him to file a liber case against her, but in the end they respected his decision.
Basic information about Karla Monique Olandesca or known from her Facebook as Maxene Montero as the girl who publicly shames a guy online
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11 responses
Jandie
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
The guy is able to file a claim, did he? If yes then good luck to the girl! Hoping that they should do something about cyber bullying..
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Michelle Shaun
@Mich1987 (160)
• San Jose, California
16 Aug 16
It was totally cyber bullying. Anyway is there any reply from the girl?
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Jandie
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@Mich1987 I don't hear anything from the girl after everything I heard that she deactivated her facebook account!
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Michelle Shaun
@Mich1987 (160)
• San Jose, California
16 Aug 16
@tech40 Woah she's trying to escape then?
rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
And nobody has the right to take a picture of anyone without asking for his /her permission . Serves her right to be bashed . I am sad for the guy because in the photo he seemed so tired .
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@Letranknight2015 Yes, i saw the picture that was posted .
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
He was tired because of getting an NBI, he's a working student, you can see the exhaustion on his face.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD But Im glad the guy chose to move on, that girl will never have guts to do it again.
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Jaymie Suh
@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
We are all into equal rights thingy so why complain about not getting a seat from the train?lol.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
17 Aug 16
She's just the type of person that complains when ever there is a certain something she can't get, now she pays the price. @cherriefic
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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16 Aug 16
I guess trolls are being controlled these days if everyone does something like this.
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Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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16 Aug 16
@Letranknight2015 true that. It's good to have dummy account comes in handy to protect ourselves lol
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Hello @skysnap with facebook there's no escape specially she didn't have a dummy account to begin with.
Bobby Larkin
@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
16 Aug 16
i don't fool with facebook because so much of it is just crap
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
That's right no one should make a fool on facebook, and now she made that mistake @hostessman
Be
@ValueAdder (409)
• Philippines
17 Aug 16
I also received such information with some of my friends who shared the incident. It truly is an awakening incident for the lady who is bullying the man because he is not giving way to the lady. It's a learning lesson for the girl, the man, and to all of us. There are times that we need just to keep our mouth shut and just understand other people. We need to learn patience, and not to be soon angry. It can backfire on us in many ways, like this MRT girl.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
17 Aug 16
Hello @ValueAdder some people just don't know how to use the facebook properly and to think that shaming can give them satisfaction. Unfortunately, this is twice I've seen some one being shamed online, which is not fair.
Judy Story
@jstory07 (139980)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Aug 16
What happened to her is just wrong.
LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
What she did was just wrong @jstory07
The Horse
@TheHorse (220267)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Sep 16
All sounds a bit silly to me. If someone is griping on Facebook, I move on.
LegTech
@rina110383 (24492)
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16 Aug 16
She has no right to complain. Applying the laws on transportation, the guy is entitled to his seat because he paid for it. Now, for the girl, she could have chosen not to take that ride knowing that she won't be able to find a seat. But she opted to, so she has to stand, notwithstanding payment of fare. Her chivalry defense is devoid of legal basis. It would have been better if the guy filed an appropriate case against that girl to give the latter a lesson.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Well, He didn't because he didn't want is life to get complicated from this single issue @rina110383 besides the girl might escape
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Michelle Shaun
@Mich1987 (160)
• San Jose, California
16 Aug 16
This is from philippines right? I heard this news from my Filipino friends. and we strongly suggest to file a case to higher position so that they can do something on this girl
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Yeah, it's from my country @Mich1987 but the guy simply apologize and didn't want to file a case. It's not in our position to do so when the guy said no. I doubt she won't do it again by the way she speaks.
Sasha
@diosabella (4789)
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11 Jan 17
geesh... She's still young and shes complaining like that? No one will offer her anything at all.