How much pain i have to get on the path of growth?
@AbnerTrevino (20)
Orange, California
August 16, 2016 2:55am CST
Hey,i'm Abner who a rookie is. That's so much pain needs to be poured out. And i really bad at writing,but i thought why not try to improve my writing skills. So,i wish friends are sick of me.
I work full time to make some drawing for engineer and i could love my job anymore. I've doing it for two years now. In fact, i can't stand my new boss. She sexually harass to me .That's so sick of it. So,i leaved there .
Then,i think power full of body myself and i could do pioneering work with my friends. However,god has made a bigger joke on me ,this once, my friends leave here quietly. I feel helpness and lonely so much on the world. The colors of world have fading.
Sometimes,i think about always how long the pain wills go on. Maybe that's recreance of myself. It musts be not strong enough to me.
Now,i try to be strong and try to learn skills of trade . Sale makeup brush that i'm interested in doing it. If only i could finish it and change my destiny. But,i don't know what today will bring.
Although, i was looser at one time. The growing pain musts be made me strong and I need more pain.
Question: How much pain i have to get on the path of growth?
Answer: More and more.
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@AbnerTrevino (20)
• Orange, California
16 Aug 16
Thanks for your kind words so much. Good luck to you,too.
My father is Chinese and mom is Korean. Of course,they come from Asia.
@cmoneyspinner (9219)
• Austin, Texas
16 Aug 16
Try this exercise. Tear a piece of paper in half. On one side write down all your blessings and things you're thankful for. On the other side write down all your hardships and/or problems.
With this exercise, people usually say the blessings always outnumber the problems. But just in case, your problems outnumber your blessings, figure out if you can use some of your blessings to eliminate some of your problems. You have to approach life with a positive attitude. Otherwise, almost anything can get you down.
I'll tell you something else about pain. If you endure your suffering and overcome or rise above it, it'll make you stronger. Then you'll be able to reach out and lift up another hurting soul.
@AbnerTrevino (20)
• Orange, California
17 Aug 16
Thanks for your kind words.
The exercise is the biggist help to me,especially. I could always use it.Thank you.
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@ValueAdder (409)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
Many times, we encounter some pain in life so we can hopefully become stronger, wiser, and better. Yes, we can be better but it's not only pain that we can learn from. In fact, our body is not designed to tolerate pain. Whenever we feel pain, we don't like it so many of us wanted that pain to go away. We can learn from the lives of others; we can learn from the pain of others; we can learn from observation; we can learn from failure. I don't wish for more pain to learn. I wish to learn from other's pain.
@AbnerTrevino (20)
• Orange, California
17 Aug 16
I have to say you are wise . You are right and sometimes the others' encounters are used for reference.
Why bother to need more pain? I think many books need to be read to me.
Thanks for your advices.
@AbnerTrevino (20)
• Orange, California
17 Aug 16
Thanks for your kind words.Beauty.
I'm fine now.
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@blazeone (97)
• Sydney, Australia
16 Aug 16
as they say buddy "no pain no gain" whatever the situation if you dont throw yourself into it you will get nothing out of it study hard at what you love to do and you will be sucessful in your own way if you do something you love then you wont work a day in your life! just keep your head up theres brighter days out there
@AbnerTrevino (20)
• Orange, California
16 Aug 16
Dear,brendan
Thank you very much . You are right. Whatever the future will bring and i jusrt keep my head up theres brighter out there. LOVE YOUR WORDS.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
16 Aug 16
I wish I could tell you that the pain will go away but pain is all a part of life. Life isn't always easy but as you get older and experience more you will be able to handle situations better. You will become stronger and the pain won't hurt as much. Pain is a part of growing and discovering yourself. I wish you all the best and in time you will discover what you want to do in life and then everything will fall into place,
@AbnerTrevino (20)
• Orange, California
17 Aug 16
Thanks for your kind words and wishes.
I will try hard to do it and promse for what you said to me .
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@AbnerTrevino (20)
• Orange, California
16 Aug 16
Of course,you are right. But,i don't think pay attention to the pain more than the picture myself.
I just want to abreact it and that feel very well.
Thanks ,SKYSNAP,
Thank you for your words of philosophy.
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@AbnerTrevino (20)
• Orange, California
16 Aug 16
Dear snehakeshri
Thanks for your kind words. I think so and agree with you very much.
Sufferings are one of the successful paths.
