To work or not to work.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
August 16, 2016 11:19am CST
I miss working. I miss being in a rush. I really miss going to work. My mom referred me to her boss to work in her back office to do inventory reports. My mom asked me if I'm okay about it and I said I will think about it first. I have so many things to consider. Of course, my health issue, then my being lazy at times. Also, I am thinking if I'm going to work who will take care of Basty's uniform? His baon? His school? Who will look after him if I'm going to work. I'm also considering the salary. It's enough for my medicine and other stuff. I can pay my health insurance ahead of time. I can also pay my Social Security. And by chance, I can save and finance my online business at the same time. I'm really having a hard time thinking about it. Really. I mean. Hard time. What you think?
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
17 Aug 16
When I was younger with three boys to raise on my own, I worked so hard.. I took all the jobs that I could possible get.. for 20 years, I only had 2 to 3 hours of sleep a day ..seven days a week .. So I can relate to what you are going through right now ..Whatever job you can get while you are young and able, you must take because when you get to my age (60) , you need more money but you work less .. I wish you well ..
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
18 Aug 16
@JustBhem oh sorry to hear about your health issues .. I guess you need to be extra careful ..
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
Thanks. The boyfriend said I need to ask my Nephro about it and decide what precaution I need to do before working.
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
17 Aug 16
Give it a try.. And when you feel stressed better back off. :)
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@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
18 Aug 16
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
Perfect. I will give it a try then if I'm not okay about it, then that's the verdict.
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@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
16 Aug 16
I would have gone for it. Experience matters. The moments that you will live there will become your stories and these will be things you'll speak with great enthusiasm for years to come.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
Wow. So deep. Thanks.
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• Mauritius
17 Aug 16
@JustBhem Live it and make it deeper.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
@excellence7 Thanks. Live life to the fullest and work like your playing.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
16 Aug 16
is the schedule going to be the usual 9 to 5, mon to fri/sat?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Aug 16
It's from 8 to 5pm mon to sat.
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• Philippines
17 Aug 16
@JustBhem do you have to be at the office, or can you arrange to do some of the work at home?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
@hereandthere I don't know actually for I haven't talk to the my mom's boss yet. Hopefully I can bring some paper works at home.
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@skysnap (20153)
16 Aug 16
Keep your mind busy, that matters. Whether you work from home or from outside job. Just keep the mind busy and that's what matters.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
It is. I will take it. Thanks.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
17 Aug 16
Give it a try ;)
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
17 Aug 16
@JustBhem london and see the queen. Lol
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
@Lucky15 Yay. And how was it?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
Do you think? Hey. Where have you been?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Aug 16
I think you should make a go for it , because you need to have a salary for your maintenance medicines and the like . Who is Basty ?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
@JustBhem Oh i see . Perhaps you can get a nanny for him specially if the salary is more than enough for your bills and needs .
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
Basty is my nephew and I am the one who take care of him now.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
16 Aug 16
I am sure that I do not have the answer to this.Something you have to work it out
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Aug 16
Thanks. I will and hopefully I figure out.
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• United States
21 Aug 16
that 'tis only a decision ya can make fer yerself, hon. i wish the best 'f luck'n whate'er ya decide.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Aug 16
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@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
16 Aug 16
I think that would be hard
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
It is very hard for a sickly me.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
16 Aug 16
Only you can decide. Best of luck.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
Yes. Thanks.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Aug 16
If you miss going to work then maybe you should do it. The other things will fall into place for you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
I guess so. I will give it a consideration this time.
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@rina110383 (24492)
17 Aug 16
If I'm in your place, I'll consider working again.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
It is giving me a hard time.
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• Philippines
17 Aug 16
I know that you have made a lot of considerations regarding the work you are referring too. I don't much about other things like your medication needs, kids needs, and other areas of consideration. Nevertheless, I am confident in your ability to weigh things over and make the right choice for you. In life, there are things we can control with our choices, which can be a learning process, a challenge or a wonderful blessing.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Aug 16
Thanks for these words. I am thinking very hard for this. Hopefully by the end of the week I can find answer to this.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
14 Feb 20
@JustBhem I can understand all your thoughts about this. Did you ever end up working at the place your mum suggested?