Our actions speak louder than our words
By Curlann
@annierose (21583)
Philippines
August 17, 2016 10:21am CST
I think there is no such partner that we can say a "perfect" one. Each person has his/her own character flaws. My boyfriend is not any other guy who is very sweet with words. It is the reason that sometimes, I feel he does not like communicating with me because he does not like talking at all. We were in fights before because I could not understand why he was like that. But as years passes by, I found out that he is not really vocal when it comes to expressing his feelings. He loves to show it more through his actions.
He supports me in everything he can. He is always at my back and will spend time listening to me when I need him. He is not a man of words but a man of actions. And I feel lucky. I love him more because words can deceive us but not actions.
The logo above was what he did for me this day for my blog. I told him that it is not that important but he still did it even though he has a busy schedule. I felt guilty because when I checked him this night, he is still working and will go home late. It was all because he spent time doing my logo.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
17 Aug 16
Men like them are very wonderful, isn't it? I am sorry about what happened to your hubby. I know even if he is no longer there with you physically, he is still 100% alive inside your heart.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
17 Aug 16
You are so right. Actions do speak louder then words. Some people have a hard time expressing themselves vocally. There are people who can say that they love you and say all the right things but then their actions tell a whole different story. You are very lucky to have such a wonderful man. Like you said he may not be perfect...but he is perfect or you and you are perfect together. That is all that matters. The picture you have attached it really good. He is very talented and that was very sweet of him to do for you even though he is busy with other things.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
@Happy2BeMe Thank you very much for sharing your thought. I agree that I am indeed very lucky to have him. We have our ups and downs, but I guess it is normal in one's relationship. Nobody is perfect anyway. How are you?
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
@Happy2BeMe That is great! It is morning here. I feel a bit sleepy. How is the weather in your area?
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@marguicha (223128)
• Chile
18 Aug 16
You are very fortunate! A good man does not mean that he is perfect, but that he is the one for you.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
I am always touched when ho does things like that despite his busy schedule. I feel blessed indeed. Thanks for dropping by here.
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@marguicha (223128)
• Chile
18 Aug 16
@annierose I had a husband like that. Not too many words, but a lot of deeds.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
@marguicha You are very lucky. I prefer a man like that. I no longer complain to my boyfriend if he does not talk much. His actions already shows his feelings.
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@CinnamonGrl (7084)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
17 Aug 16
It's so true. You can tell whether someone loves you by how they treat you.Little thoughtful things as much as grand gestures., maybe more! I love the logo your guy did for you!
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
17 Aug 16
Yes, I love it very much too. I told him I want to write. He supports me in what I want. In fact, he is my number 1 reader on my blog. Thanks for appreciating it.
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@CinnamonGrl (7084)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
17 Aug 16
@annierose I think he's a keepefr.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
17 Aug 16
@CinnamonGrl I agree. I will never let him go. Thanks for appreciating him. Let us continue to talk tomorrow. I have to go to bed now. It is already 11:33 PM. Have a great day!
@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
17 Aug 16
yes I prefer a man of action.. and makes less noise.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
@Drosophila Hi Wendy! Words without actions are futile. How is your love life?
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
@just4him Yes, I do agree with you. He is more of actions than of words. How are you today?
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Aug 16
@annierose I'm doing well. I didn't do any packing today. I'm about done with it. Basically the kitchen and the odds and ends now.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD Good to hear that! I can relate to you. Sometimes I am thinking if it is because he finds English as a very difficult language or it is just his personality to be not so vocal.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Aug 16
@annierose That's because generally men are like that , not vocal but more on actions . They don't want to be vocal because they feel ashamed doing that than by action in a subtle way though .
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
i remember when you were asking for blog names. this is a great logo - books, road, plane and a globe. is he a graphic artist by profession?
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
18 Aug 16
@hereandthere You have a sharp mind.
Actually, it was I who draw how will the logo look like and he was the one who did it on his computer. I am not really that good in drawing things using the computer. I drew it on a clean paper and I gave him directions about what colors and designs to do. He also suggested ideas but he would always depend on me for the final decision.
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@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
Thanks @minders1 for sharing your thoughts. By the way, are you new in Mylot?
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
@minders1 I see..Welcome here in Mylot. How do you find Mylot so far?