Abuse

@Klenig (45)
Atlanta, Georgia
August 17, 2016 2:39pm CST
Seriously if your in a abusive relationship (goes for both genders) get out of it. The first time you get hit your a victim but after that your just volunteering yourself. "oh but he or she loves me" or "I'll change them" or "I don't want my heartbroken or anyone else" Truth is NO they don't LOVE you and NO you won't be able to CHANGE them. EVERYONE gets their heartbroken but you know you just got to move on and find better. They are the ones sick in the head. If you honestly don't see anything wrong with it then you have the same mental problem. Also if your scared to get out of something like that then find someone to help you out of it. There are so many guys or girls out there that will treat you with respect and you deserve to be treated like a Queen or King not some dog toy.
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@GardenGerty (160721)
• United States
17 Aug 16
I would go a step further. The first time your loved one or partner damages property in your presence deliberabtely you are ALREADY in an abusive relationship. Do not wait around for a blow to your self. Get out, they do not change. They only get worse.
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• United States
18 Aug 16
I agree that one must get out. Unfortunately, it's not always that easy. Sometimes, people have nowhere else to go or are terrified to leave due to threats. People suffering domestic violence often need support to get out.
@skysnap (20153)
17 Aug 16
True, I don't stay in abusive and irritaing friendship either. I don't like negative comments and remarks. I may sound anti social but its better than being in negative vampire environment.
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@LeaPea2417 (37357)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Aug 16
I totally agree with that. You summed it up perfectly!
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@CinnamonGrl (7084)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
17 Aug 16
I so agree with this. There are more ways to get out of these things than there ever have been. I hate to see someone complain about the same issues over and over and over again. Maybe it is not EASY to start over, but there is help out there..
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@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
18 Aug 16
Tru Dat!
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