"Fashionable" (but irritating) ways of speaking

@YesWay (3674)
August 20, 2016 7:13am CST
Have you noticed how sometimes there will be a new fashion or fad in the way people speak? It's understandabke of course, most things follow fashion in some way shape or form, but I find some of these things so irritating. Such as: * saying "can I get" instead of "may I have" Usually when you offer someone a drink or something, and they say "can I get a lemonade?" I hate it. I have in the past said "it's ok, I'll get it, I'm going to the bar anyway, what do you want?" But as always, my mild sarcasm goes unnoticed. I don't know where this little expression has come from. But I wish it would go back there. *"literally". There seems to be a wave of people at the moment using "literally" in every sentence, irrespective of whether they are actually being literal or not. Just the other day I overhead someone say "I literally died". Again, it just makes me want to weep! Do you hate these? Or is it just me?!
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
20 Aug 16
I really don't like the words plethora and myriad, I find them so pretentious, lol
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
20 Aug 16
@YesWay lol it is mostly writers who use it way too often to impress readers lol
@YesWay (3674)
20 Aug 16
@BelleStarr ah well they should quit it - it doesn't impress me. Although I should imagine it does impress a real plethora of people from time to time. Sorry, couldn't resist.
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@YesWay (3674)
20 Aug 16
I am happy to say that none of my friends use either of those words. Thank goodness!
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@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Aug 16
I love your expression 'I wish it would go back there'. So funny.
@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Aug 16
@YesWay It's always good to have a scapegoat. :) Bad joke but did you know that 99% of people who die of cancer have watched TV?
@YesWay (3674)
20 Aug 16
I don't know where people pick up these little quirks from. I guess it must originate from tv. I blame tv for most things!
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@YesWay (3674)
21 Aug 16
@JudyEv Really?! I did not know that!! Lol :)
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• Philippines
21 Aug 16
Some people just want to create their own version of english beyond the people gotten used to from their english classes. sometimes i hate it too, but i bet if i encounter myself with some foreigner who speaks english i might end up saying words you hate
@YesWay (3674)
21 Aug 16
I know that it is easy to pick up the things that other people say or how they say it when you hang around with them a lot.
@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
21 Aug 16
I have noticed that. I have noticed people who say the word 'like" a lot. For example , "like, I was going here", "like, I was doing this".
@YesWay (3674)
21 Aug 16
Yes I have noticed that one too. It is so unnecessary yet they use "like" to fill up half their sentences!
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@paigea (36317)
• Canada
20 Aug 16
I find it irritating. Although, I say literally too much myself. I hate the phrase "drive safe." I see it on billboards by highways, everyone says it.
@paigea (36317)
• Canada
20 Aug 16
@YesWay I want to add ly to each of those signs!
@YesWay (3674)
20 Aug 16
I don't think we say "drive safe" too much here in the UK. That's not to say of course that we don't care about one another lol!
• Philippines
20 Aug 16
If he/she is a stranger, it is better to don't mind them but if he/she is one of your close friends, then you can hurt him/ her literally. lol
@YesWay (3674)
20 Aug 16
Where I work at the moment, there are a few people who talk like this. It is so very annoying!
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@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
20 Aug 16
I understand. But how many people can we correct? I try to focus on the message that they are attempting to convey rather than the grammar. Where I live...wrong vocabulary is part and parcel of any conversation.
@YesWay (3674)
20 Aug 16
I don't think we can correct them, and there's no point if we could as they'll only revert. I was just chatting about something that grates.
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