Losing Interest

Marriage is a work in progress. For it to be successful, you have to nourish it emotionally, spiritually and physically.

Physical beauty fades over time . It is best that we love according to what we see inside of our partners .

Getting to know the person well enough should be included as well. Love could fade overtime when we can't handle behaviours of a person that wasn't shown before marriage.

Losing interest happens for the man and woman. Sometimes the couple is no longer compatible and these things happen. Sometimes there's just a disconnection or abuse. Some marriages come back together while others do not.

Yes it is never a good idea to lose interest in each other. we should always spend time with other as much as possible.

that is why it is important to know the person better. It needs time, we need some time to know the real person we are going to spend our lives with.. That's why in the old days here in our country, courtship takes years before lovers becomes officially bf and gf and they take 4-10 years before they get married..

One can only lose interest when he/she sees someone more interesting.

of course, this may be one of the reasons. But, confidence, faith, and understanding are the most important factors that stabilize a relationship.

true, you must work at marriage just like anything else.

I agree, one should always be interested towards his or her partner. Without that interest, it would be boring and later on the other would look for someone else who could ease the boredom.

I agree with these points, I had seen that there are some people who treat their partner as a trophy, or means to an end,....there are cases where a lady walks in the office after her marriage and I see that her face is grave as usual or with pride that now she is different , as if she got stars on her shoulder, I didn't see that Radiance on the face which is supposed to come from the satisfaction or the bliss of marriage, Its like two different bodies and one soul , marriage bondage is so sublime, I don't see such things on the faces of so called generation next. Getting married is just like getting promoted in a corporate setup, so everybody wants to get promoted and once somebody gets promoted its a stalemate, no wonder their marriage lacks LOVE.