Find fault in others life or Let them Live?

By Sky
@skysnap (20153)
August 23, 2016 4:28am CST
So I have this question. I know many of us want to find fault in others life. And for some reason want to scold and torture them for their bad decisions in life. And something they want to make fun of those people for their circumstances. However is it any good? Do people find happiness by finding faults in others? Do people find solution by finding issues in others actions? How does it work? Why not let other people live with their mistakes instead of finding fault and lecturing them?
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14 responses
Marie
@Tampa_girl7 (50318)
• United States
23 Aug 16
I don't think that we should judge others. I try very hard not too.
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Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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23 Aug 16
yes and not judging always helps.
Yadah
@Yadah04 (3363)
• Philippines
25 Aug 16
People tend to put down others so as they may look taller. I guess, some people are just so fun at finding fault on because they thought that by doing that, they will look more righteous than others.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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25 Aug 16
this seems to be the case for many people.
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Yadah
@Yadah04 (3363)
• Philippines
25 Aug 16
@skysnap you can say that again. Just sad.
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Curlann
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
With the kind of life that I am having now, I do no longer have the time to find faults with other people. Those things are just being done by people who are jealous or insecure. I don't feel like I am of that kind.
Curlann
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
@skysnap We can find peace if we just focus on people that we love and dreams we want to achieve.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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24 Aug 16
this is so true.
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Aug 16
That is true stop blaming anyone.The person himself will face his own consequence.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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23 Aug 16
exactly.
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Erly Maglangit
@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Aug 16
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jin
@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
Do these people finding faults on others lives have no faults in their own lives, and living in a sinless worlds? I doubt it.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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24 Aug 16
yes you're right.
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jin
@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
26 Aug 16
@skysnap It is better to look at your own log in your eye before checking on the speck in another's eye
Thelma
@thelme55 (77137)
• Germany
24 Aug 16
Very well said. Finding fault in other people's doing is making some people high of themselves. Just live your life of your own. That's better than minding others life.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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24 Aug 16
yes and i think thats bad way to spend time in life.
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Thelma
@thelme55 (77137)
• Germany
24 Aug 16
@skysnap yes indeed and a waste of time too.
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
Before we find fault with others , we should evaluate our lives first . People who are like that , are actually the ones with many faults in life.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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24 Aug 16
i agree completely.
Silvermist
@silvermist (19702)
• India
23 Aug 16
@skysnap I usually do not find fault with others.Live and let live,that has always been my policy.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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23 Aug 16
that is indeed good policy.
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Silvermist
@silvermist (19702)
• India
23 Aug 16
@skysnap And how I wish some of the people will adopt that policy.
LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51974)
• Philippines
26 Aug 16
I doubt people are happy if they blame other people, it's the way for them to get out of their own accountability.
Pat Z Anthony
@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
24 Aug 16
We should be too critical with others. We are all capable of making the same mistakes.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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24 Aug 16
yes and often we do too.
Elizabeth
@Poppylicious (11133)
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23 Aug 16
I think that some people have such low self-esteem that finding fault with others just makes them feel better about themselves. Sadly.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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23 Aug 16
totally agree.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340530)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Aug 16
It is a shame when people find fault with others. I don't think finding fault helps anyone.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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24 Aug 16
indeed it never helps.
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Folarin Festus Abayomi
@maicharles (44)
• Bangalore, India
24 Aug 16
It's okay to help correct an obvious fault with love... But finding fault in everything....they probably feel, well i noticed it and told him about it...if it weren't for me....he's still gonna be moving around with the mistake. which is really bad
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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24 Aug 16
yeah that's true.
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suchit chauhan
@SUCHIIT (75)
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23 Aug 16
nobody like to interfer in others case, but many time one is is our close one, we find fault in their oppose person.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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24 Aug 16
true that.