Are You Going To Pressure Me?
@cacay1 (83595)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
August 24, 2016 7:51am CST
There is someone here I do not know. He sent me a private message commanding me to comment on his post, but never had I noticed this person interacting on my post.I think it is not good to send a private message dictating a Mylotter to comment and interact on his post.
Is this not a glitch? Have you also encountered the same experience as mine someone begging you to interact a post? I think as long a we always show up in someone's post, there is also a nice return from them.
I share this to you for I am confused.Thanks, take care all.
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46 responses
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
go to your settings, then go to 'message preferences,' then change it from 'Anyone can message me, except for those I've blocked' to 'Only those I follow can message me'.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@hereandthere, wow thanks freind, I haven't read that portion hehehehe
, I surely do.Thank you so much.
, I surely do.Thank you so much.3 people like this
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
@cacay1 good. please do it now.
also, next time, don't connect immediately to anyone who follows you. observe their behavior first if they're here to stay or not.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@hereandthere , oh, I owe much to you now. hank you my dear.
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@annaroselock (805)
• United Kingdom
25 Aug 16
How rude 
this is one of the reasons I don't allow private messages
this is one of the reasons I don't allow private messages3 people like this
@moffittjc (121740)
• Gainesville, Florida
28 Aug 16
We can block private messages? I didn't know we could do that! Maybe I should go back and read everything about how to use this site!
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Aug 16
@annaroselock , that is the perfect word, so rude and so weird. How pitiful on his part begging, and not the right way to earn here.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
you can avoid receiving those kinds of messages by going to your setting and changing the messaging preferences, which is what i suggested to erly.
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to me twice already someone begging to read his post hahahaha naka ka loka!
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
24 Aug 16
I have never had such a thing happen to me so far. I think it is taking things a bit far when you demand people to comment on your discussions. That would have the reverse affect on me. I would not want to comment on anything they posted after that. I think it is rude.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@Happy2BeMe, seems unethical begging me to rad and comment the post which I never found.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Aug 16
@Happy2BeMe , That is true, there is no need to dictate or beg someone because if we like a post, we surely read and participate discussion.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
24 Aug 16
@cacay1 If people like something they will comment on it. Somebody shouldn't have to message people and demand that they comment on what they have written. Takes all kinds of people though. That's what keep life interesting! lol
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
I have never experienced that so far. If ever it will happen to me and I am in a good mood, I will spend my time to look on it and answer it. It all depends on my mood.
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, you make my evening wonderful hahaha.
@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Aug 16
@annierose , yeah great and my heart beats happily.
@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@louievill yes seems weird too.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@louievill , yes true uethical and pitiful. I searched his name but cannot be found.I would want to comment on his post but i cannot find his post.I haven't read his inetractions too.
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@CinnamonGrl (7086)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
24 Aug 16
I don't blame you for being confused, my opinion is that's weird and nobody should be doing it. People respond of their own free will, I've seen there is a "suggestion" option but I don't use it. I thought it was to suggest a friend's post or something anyway, not your own. I think it's kinda rude. I wouldn't respond unless I was really interested in the post.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@CinnamonGrl , I cannot respond for I haven't seen him interacting in my post, so weird,maybe outsider? There were almost 5 men doing this to me begging to respond them, but I did not respond.One was reported and was dismissed by sir admin at Mylot.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
@cacay1 you can open admin's profile in another tab, then copy paste the messages of these men, and send it to him.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@hereandthere Thanks friend, I will do it if he will message me again.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
Not encountered a similar situation. What I had some suggestions from a fellow Mylotter of some discussions that she knows would be interesting for me.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Aug 16
@sunrisefan, Actually, this is my second experience receiving a private message begging me to read his discussion, then comment.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
27 Aug 16
@cacay1 Might be good to report it to Duterte and Bato hahaha! Am in Cebu right now :)
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
I have not received a message from that mylotter, but if I were you, I would report it to the admin.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@ilocosboy , there were so many of them I reported and were no longer here mostly men. I just observe if he will message me again.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@ilocosboy , But, I cannot find his post hehehe, maybe annoying me.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
24 Aug 16
@cacay1 some are just to annoying, just wanted you to comment but not active in discussion.
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@snehakeshri (449)
• Mumbai, India
25 Aug 16
yaa i experienced the same but ignored it without reply
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Aug 16
Yeah, I ignored, I was so afraid it might be a scam.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32748)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Aug 16
That is not allowed , You just put that person in a lot of trouble because I remember that is considered a violation.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
The person is not mentioned and cannot be found here.I never met that person here.What if he wants to scam me he is just pretending.There was a precedence before in mylot some scams entered i this site, but it was resolved by admin.
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@PurnaSharma (2562)
• Guwahati, India
26 Aug 16
Yes I too experienced with a same type of message but mine was little bit unlike than you. He asked me to follow him in return of followed me.
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@PurnaSharma (2562)
• Guwahati, India
31 Aug 16
@cacay1 then how did you react to him?
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Aug 16
@PurnaSharma ,mine is different rude, begging to read and comment his post, lol.pitiful.
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Aug 16
@PurnaSharma , I did not reply his message, the more he will be persistent.
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@Hate2Iron (15727)
• Canada
24 Aug 16
That would annoy me to no end. It's up to the individual to decide whether to comment or not, but to DEMAND... I would ignore him completely!
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@Hate2Iron, That is true, and why send a message privately when if he only interacts in my post he will surely be responded.It annoys me too.
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Aug 16
Seriously? That's weird. Are guys thinking this is some sort of dating/hook up site and that's why they are pestering you?
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@cacay1 (83595)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 16
@JohnRoberts , Yes, weird messenger, plus I haven't met him here.That person might be stranger here.
