I tried something new on MyLot for the last couple of days and I like it!

@TheHorse (218921)
Walnut Creek, California
August 25, 2016 2:01pm CST
Usually, with my first morning cup of coffee, I respond to comments on my posts, visit a few commenters, write a new post, and then continue responding to comments on my posts, occasionally visiting others who have left comments on my posts. The last couple of mornings I've done something totally different: I've ignored comments on my posts (in the short-term), visited others' posts, and followed threads and visited ONLY others' posts, not being concerned about comments on my posts or getting something posted. The result is that I'm way behind in responding to comments on my posts, but I've had a chance to visit more posts by others, including @Wordazza, @ElizabethWallace, @JudyE, etc. I'll get to comments on my own posts eventually. Do you have a MyLot pattern? Have you ever changed it, just to see what happens?
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• United States
26 Aug 16
I recently added a step to my pattern. I go to notifications first, then comments on my most recent post. The new step is to check out new posts by people I follow. I visit at least five, often more.
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
Interesting. I don't even know who I follow. I mean I know I followed them. But it doesnt affect my search behavior.
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• United States
27 Aug 16
@norcal I don't do it first, since I want to jump into conversations, but I do it anyway.
@norcal (4889)
• Franklinton, North Carolina
26 Aug 16
@ElizabethWallace That is what I always do first.
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@sallypup (61155)
• Centralia, Washington
25 Aug 16
I'm not good at sewing so no patterns here.
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
25 Aug 16
that was somewhat amusing
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@JudyEv (340200)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Aug 16
I can't even hem hankies straight!
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
@JudyEv Patterns? I start thinking factals. In the practical world, I'm helpless. Just give me meditative repetition and I'm OK.
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@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
26 Aug 16
I catch up people I follow when I am on my pc, when I am mobile I work on notifications. Once I am done with new readings I catch up some notifications but rarely all. Oh and I post early on so as not to forget
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• Centralia, Missouri
26 Aug 16
@TheHorse I rarely manage a first thing in the AM post, brain rarely working at 4am, sat I do early but still not that early
@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
I try to get one post done before I head off to work. Unless I'm teaching an 8 AM class.
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@JudyEv (340200)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Aug 16
Forgot to say that's a gorgeous photo! What a cutie!
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
Oh, she's one of my best friends at the preschool right now. She's three. The kids like to "steal" my hat and wear it for awhile.
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@JudyEv (340200)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Aug 16
@TheHorse I thought it looked a bit big for her. :)
@JudyEv (340200)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Aug 16
I have changed and try to visit the most recent comments and posts first rather than starting at the 'old' ones. Hopefully in this way I can connect with a few people in 'real' time.
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
Makes sense. Sometimes I find older ones "randomly," meaning that I never got to them. I'll still respond to them.
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@JudyEv (340200)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Aug 16
@TheHorse Me too. I try not to miss any but if you're away for a while it's pretty inevitable.
@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
26 Aug 16
I always take care of my notifications first. I figure if someone takes the time to leave me a comment, it deserves my attention.
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
That's been my strategy for my first several months here. For the past couple of days, I've been reading others' posts first. I'm catching up on comments on my posts now, as I cook dinner and do some woodworking and progress notes. Dang, almost sounds like I'm "multitasking," doesn't it?
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
@teamfreak16 Rice was involved in my dinner as well.
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
26 Aug 16
@TheHorse - It's more productive than me. I'm just making rice.
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@celticeagle (167015)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Aug 16
I do have a pattern. I have changed it over the years and it works well for me. Glad you found one that makes you happy.
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@celticeagle (167015)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Aug 16
@TheHorse .....That sounds good. Everyone has their own way of doing things.
@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
I'll probably keep trying new things.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
26 Aug 16
I have a pattern. I have not really changed it.
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Sep 16
If it ain't broke, don't fix it!
@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
26 Aug 16
I always go through my notifications first, I reply to all the reponses that I find on my posts, then I check the other notifications. I have to say that I am not very happy when I leave a comment and I do not get a reply for days, so I try to reply as soon as I can.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
26 Aug 16
@TheHorse I think that the best I can do is to clear all the notifications first, because if I start to read new posts, more notifications will add to the previous ones.
@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
I kind of feel the same way. On this post, I'm behind because of my "new strategy."
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
25 Aug 16
Like a pigeon pecking for grain, I dart this way and that, answering, reading and responding, wherever the breeze blows me... The trail of responses on a longish discussion thread becomes difficult to navigate from Notifications, I find.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
25 Aug 16
@TheHorse Yes. Full-stop. :)
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Aug 16
I often find them difficult to navigate, period!
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@blitzfrick (2890)
• United States
28 Aug 16
I'm in the habit of going to Notifications first, and one by one checking responses and going to each responder's page to see if there's a post they've made that I can respond to. Once that's done, I delete the appropriate notification and move on to the next one.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
29 Aug 16
My pattern is the same as yours so I might give it a try and visit first and work later. I've considered it before but If you like it, I will probably like it too...I need to spread my wings...
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Sep 16
I've been doing more of it recently (it seems to turn out well), but I also sometimes go back to old ways.
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@polyxena (2628)
• Sturgis, Michigan
25 Aug 16
I usually like to respond to my posts first, and then reading other people's posts.
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
That's been my pattern until the last couple of days.
@polyxena (2628)
• Sturgis, Michigan
27 Aug 16
@TheHorse I don't know if I could could break my schedule. It'd make me feel weird.
• New Delhi, India
26 Aug 16
Pattern is like this, first of all open notification replied to them, then comment on most recent discussions, and rarely post a discussion
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
Why rarely post?
@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Aug 16
@ModernDayWriter What do you prefer to write about?
• New Delhi, India
27 Aug 16
@TheHorse feelings of heart, troubles of mind
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
26 Aug 16
Yes, i have and it's always the same . First i will go to my most recent posts and comment back on those who commented while i was gone . Then go to my other notifications until i am done with them . Then go back to the posts of those who commented on my posts . I am happy that way , because at least i get to return my friends' visit too .
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@Lolaze (5093)
• St. Louis, Missouri
26 Aug 16
I need to get back into a pattern since I've been away. Right now I'm focusing on commenting on other's posts more than my own.
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
27 Aug 16
That's what I've been doing too. But today, I was sort of random.
• Eugene, Oregon
25 Aug 16
My pattern is not a pattern really. I generally respond to comments first though.
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
That's why I usually do. I'm way behind right now, though.
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@rina110383 (24492)
26 Aug 16
The first thing I do is to clear my notifications and act on them if needed then respond to discussions under the Most Recent Section.
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Aug 16
I visit "Most Recent" at random times, mostly when my usual friends aren't posting anything new.
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@thelme55 (77081)
• Germany
26 Aug 16
I take care of all the notification at first then comments on the commenters on my posts before I replied to the comments on my discussions. Then, I interact to the other posts before I write my own discussion. That is if I feel writing.
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@marie42 (981)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
26 Aug 16
I always go through my notifications first and respond to them. Then go respond to other posts. Seems to work for me.
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