i really don't trust him when it comes to "time" / myLot

Philippines

August 30, 2016 3:38am CST

My husband just don't know anything about "time management". I hate it every time he asks me to extend my waiting time. I hate waiting and he always comes late, about an hour or more.

He is totally wasting so much of my time. I have plans and I can't do it because I have to wait for him all the time. Sometimes, when I go shopping I don't wait for him because it will take me hours of waiting and that means less time to shop which means I have to rush. I'm so pissed off right now.

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6 responses

Laurel (L_B)

@Happy2BeMe (99355)

• Canada

30 Aug 16

Have you talked to him about this and explained to him how it upsets you? Nobody likes to wait around for somebody who is always running late. I can understand your frustration if it just keeps happening.

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katrine

@carexing25 (1818)

• Philippines

30 Aug 16

He knows as it happens all the time.. this is one reason i don't like going out with him..

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Laurel (L_B)

@Happy2BeMe (99355)

• Canada

30 Aug 16

@carexing25 i can understand why you would feel that way if he isn't trying to make a change.

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Pinay Ako

@AkoPinay (11544)

• Philippines

30 Aug 16

I hate waiting too

don't go out with him if you have a period

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katrine

@carexing25 (1818)

• Philippines

30 Aug 16

i don't go out at times like that

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Pinay Ako

@AkoPinay (11544)

• Philippines

30 Aug 16

@carexing25 we can avoid "war" that way

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lealuvy2j

@lealuvy2j (1985)

• Philippines

30 Aug 16

I am surprised by this because usually it is the girl who keeps the guy waiting. On my marriage, it is the other way around for us, he is the one usually pissed at me because I make him wait while I get ready to go out. I know that it is a bad habit and I'm really trying my best to be on time. I have learned that is always best to respect each others time.

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katrine

@carexing25 (1818)

• Philippines

31 Aug 16

correct! it's a very important aspect in marriage.. time is precious we should never waste it..but girls are exempted? Lol! it's natural for us girls to be a little late coz of our beauty rituals

but i do it as early as I could so there's more time to prepare for the real goal..

Thelma

@thelme55 (76645)

• Germany

30 Aug 16

You're hubby does not respect you with your time management. Try to do what he is doing to you when it comes to waiting. This time you will teach him a lesson and let him wait for you instead. Then he will know how it is. Well, it is just my suggestion.

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katrine

@carexing25 (1818)

• Philippines

31 Aug 16

i tried doing that.. as in i really did it on purpose but he's just too patient..

and I'm planning to do it next time but when he goes out for something important like special gatherings with his friends or family meetings..

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