It&#39;s not your job to like me, it&#39;s mine.

Your Highness Emperor Albert Whisker

@CaptAlbertWhisker (32746)

• Calgary, Alberta

30 Aug 16

@JustBhem Please everyone will just lead to a disaster.I mean there will still be people who will like us for who we are.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

30 Aug 16

@CaptAlbertWhisker You are right!

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

30 Aug 16

Right. We cannot please anyone.

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rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90721)

• Philippines

31 Aug 16

I feel like i am monster , when someone doesn't like me . So , i just don't mind that person and tell myself , if she doesn't like me then i don't like her too .

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rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90721)

• Philippines

31 Aug 16

@JustBhem

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

That's my preference as well. So it is a win win solution. lol

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Hazel Vee

@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

31 Aug 16

I always look for something to like in people.. They don't have to like me for me to like them... But if they don't like me, why should I like them?..

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Hazel Vee

@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

2 Sep 16

@JustBhem hahaah! yes indeed!

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

If they don't like us then we don't like them as well. That's the essence, right?

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Sue H.

@CinnamonGrl (7086)

• Santa Fe, New Mexico

30 Aug 16

No, I'm too old to worry about that now. I know who my people are and they are all I need.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

30 Aug 16

That's pretty great. Yes, and we call them our best of friends.

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Alfredo Rossi

@amadeo (111938)

• United States

30 Aug 16

I have been there.Now at this age of mine.Like Clark Cable in Gone with the Wind.Scarlett I do not give a a damn This how I feel.I do not need those type of people.Do not let it bother you.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

30 Aug 16

Thanks for that uplifting words. I won't let them bother me. This is me.

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LegTech

@rina110383 (24492)

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31 Aug 16

I don't care if someone does not like me. It won't affect me at all. I wasn't raised by my parents to please people.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

I agree. Thanks for sharing @rina110383.

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Bluedoll

@Bluedoll (16773)

• Canada

31 Aug 16

if someone doesn't like me i don't tell them to?

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

You don't tell them and you don't talk to them as well.

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LK2018

@Letranknight2015 (52079)

• Philippines

30 Aug 16

Some people just don't have anything to do with their lives. Most specially if they feel envy and they think they should express their dislike towards a person. Some people doesn't understand when they express something they don't like on a person, it's either it's affecting them or its about themselves then blaming on some one.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

Yes. I watched TV the other week about a Filipina who worked in Singapore. She was a cleaner in a hotel and most of the employee were filipinos. One reception is also a filipina. This cleaner got praises from her boss and this filipina receptionist got envy. She told the boss about the cleaner that she was lazy and always skip her work going outside. The cleaner was fired. That receptionist really don't like someone who can beat her when it comes to work that is why she always manipulated everything just to get her higher position. This always happens to filipinos. If we don't like that certain person then don't hurt them or punish them and do things that will make them unworthy. I mean we cannot please anybody but ourselves. But people will always do things that will make us feel bad.

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sofs

@sofssu (23662)

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31 Aug 16

It does matter at times.. I would always want my husband and children to love me, my friends to like me.. I really would not worry too much about the rest.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

Way to go @sofssu I agree with you.

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Sharon

@simone10 (54187)

• Louisville, Kentucky

31 Aug 16

It did matter to me when I was younger but now, it doesn't really matter one way or another.

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Sharon

@simone10 (54187)

• Louisville, Kentucky

2 Sep 16

@JustBhem I've learned that you can't please everyone, no matter how hard you try.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

Because we learn and we have a lot of things to consider instead of thinking about them.

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Avinash

@avi256 (8489)

• Pune, India

31 Aug 16

It only matters when people who actually matters to you dont like you. Otherwise it does not matters much. It is well said, " a person who tries to please all , remains the most unhappy person".

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

I like that phrase. Thanks for sharing.

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ARM

@responsiveme (22926)

• India

30 Aug 16

Depends on who the someone is:)

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

30 Aug 16

Like in an instance. In the office, your office mates don't like to talk to you because they think you are ahead of them when in fact tou share the same job description.

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ARM

@responsiveme (22926)

• India

31 Aug 16

@JustBhem I don't bother...

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Laurel (L_B)

@Happy2BeMe (99380)

• Canada

30 Aug 16

It use to really bother me but now that I am older it doesn't bother me too much. If they don't like me then so be it. Not everybody is going to like everybody so it's always best to just be yourself.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

30 Aug 16

I agree. Being yourself is not their problem anymore. Thanks for sharing @Happy2BeMe.

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Ancy Rajan

@ancyrajan90 (281)

• Muscat, Oman

31 Aug 16

If my friends,loved ones,relatives keet distance to me, it feels me a lot.... hope that wouldn't come in my life

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

It is an awful feeling when someone very dear to us don't like us anymore. Sad thought and I don't like to feel that way.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

@ancyrajan90

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Ancy Rajan

@ancyrajan90 (281)

• Muscat, Oman

31 Aug 16

@JustBhem Very true ...

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Linda Mansfield (Snowdrop)

@sprite1950 (30452)

• Corsham, England

31 Aug 16

@JustBhem It depends on whether I like the person concerned. If someone I liked didn't like me I would be upset and want to know why but if someone I didn't like disliked me I wouldn't care.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

31 Aug 16

We have the sawe thought. If the person don't like us, then we don't like them as well.

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85288)

• Valdosta, Georgia

30 Aug 16

If I am being honest, I do care if someone likes me or they don't. I try to be a really good person to others so it bothers me and confuses me when someone dislikes me.

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