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I apologize for neglecting you all and my notifications. Life has hit us hard. Hubby's spinal stenosis surgery began two hours late and lasted six hours, two hours looking for his arterial artery which was finally located by Dopplar Radar. It resulted in a black and blue, needle pricked palm and left arm, and a numb left thumb. A neurological physiologist tested each nerve in the operating room, but left him pretty marked up, head and all. He can't lift his right arm. His surgeon told me it would take anywhere from six to eighteen months to heal, yet there is a one in twenty chance he won't. After 24 hours in intensive care, he was transferred to a lovely private room from Friday night and was discharged Sunday evening. He is in a lot of pain. He has a neck brace and isn't sleeping well. I've been taking good care of him. I dole out his meds, massage his head, back, and shoulders, bathe, and on occasion spoon feed him if necessary. He doesn't have much of an appetite and drinks through a straw. I have cleaned up spilled glasses of water, toppled bowls, and a dropped telephone. I walk through the house with him as often as he can do it. In between, I vacuum, clean Doodles's litter box, walk and feed Doodles, shop, pick up prescriptions, do laundry, clean, cook, get the newspaper and mail, deal with phone calls, texts, visiting nurses and occupational therapists, and sleep. I couldn't do this without the support of our younger son, who has been a tremendous help and loving person throughout this past week. So have our friends and family. So have you. I want to thank those of you who have left such heartwarming and caring comments, prayers, and messages, here and on Facebook. You are the BEST! I will try to stop by when I can. I'm so sorry not to have the time for you right now. By the way, Doodles hasn't left my side. The photo shows him in my room while I was on the phone my first night after leaving the hospital.