~Update On My Husband~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
Valdosta, Georgia
September 2, 2016 1:03pm CST
The doctor called this morning about my husband. He didn't give him the blood test results yet, but he did say my husband is needing a colonoscopy done. My husband has to schedule that.
My husband is getting concerned I think, because he asked me earlier how I would make it if something happens to him. He asked where I would go and all of that. He said your going to have 5 kids to take care of-how will you do that by yourself?
I don't want to think about the worst right now. It's not healthy to get all scared when we don't know anything for sure yet. We will wait and see-then worry when the time comes.
I will update everyone once we get the blood test results and after he goes for this test...
Doctors are SO slow! Is it just here or do they take their time everywhere??
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39 responses
@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
2 Sep 16
They can take their time here too...not that I've been to see a quack for 15 years or so
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Sep 16
@Mike197602 It is driving me insane with how long it's taking. =(
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Sep 16
@Mike197602 Thanks, gosh I hope so.
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@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
2 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies it would do the same to me too.
Hopefully things will be sorted out soon.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
2 Sep 16
It is all very well to say not to jump to coclusions and not to worry. We have to wait long for our results.Every where it is the same..Hopefully the result will show it is only something that can be dealt with.My positive thoughts for you and your husband.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Sep 16
@silvermist Yeah, I don't want to get ahead of ourselves. Once we know something then we will figure things out. Thank you for the positive thoughts.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Sep 16
@much2say Thank you, I hope so too. It has been hard. Thank you for the positive thoughts, I appreciate it. =) 
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Sep 16
@jabouk Thank you, yeah it is making me more worrisome when he says things like that. =( Thanks, I hope so too.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Sep 16
@paigea Yes the doctor seems to be a really good one! I am grateful for that.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
2 Sep 16
It would be hard to have that kind of conversation with your loved one. I am continuing to keep him in my prayers. Hope the doctors gives him some results soon. I can't even imagine how you are all feeling just waiting and not knowing.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Sep 16
@Happy2BeMe It was hard to hear him talking that way. Thank you for the prayers. I am worried and I hate waiting-I just wish we would hear something either way.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
5 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies yes regardless of the news you need to know so you can make some decisions. Waiting is stressful.
@snowy22315 (181998)
• United States
3 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies I would say though if you don't have any answers by Tuesday that you must remind them that it is unfair to keep you waiting. The thing is that if they thought it was a true emergency, they likely would have him scheduled for surgery already...so the fact you are waiting could be a good thing. I know with my dad..he went to the doctor for an unrelated matter,,,they saw his kidney was cancerous and he was in the hospital the same day!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@snowy22315 It's going from one doctor to another-which is what's taking so long. It's not just a matter of the results being told to us. Plus he's going for more tests now so who knows how long it will all take to be get to us.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Sep 16
@thesids Thank you for the prayers and I'm glad to see you! =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Sep 16
@sishy7 Yeah, well its being sent to his primary doctor so I think that's what the hold up is. Thank you for the prayers and thoughts. I hope to hear something soon too.
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
3 Sep 16
I hope they got to you in time, I hope they're not taking long breaks or something.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@Letranknight2015 I think its a matter of people not wanting to do their jobs. The results have to be faxed to his doctor and we would know something.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Sep 16
@jstory07 Thank you for the prayers. I know, I am just hoping everything will be fine.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Sep 16
@Juliaacv Thank you, I really hope so. I know, I just hate thinking about the worst.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
3 Sep 16
Sending positive thoughts your way, the results should come out OK. Take care all of you.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@responsiveme Thank you for the positive thoughts. =)
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@teresatrotter (4073)
• Jacksonville, Florida
3 Sep 16
I have to have one of those too. But it is my understanding that most of the time it is just polyps. And if it is more...that type of cancer is easier to cure than most others. I have not read your previous posts about this yet, but I hope the research I did on this...is correct.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@teresatrotter I hope it won't be anything too serious. Waiting is the worst part.
@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
3 Sep 16
i guess it depends on what they are looking for...I get mine within a day...but with me they are just checking for vitamin deficiencies.
My dad had a similar scare 2 months ago. I guess they tend to panic when they feel like something is the matter with them. My mom knew he will be fine and told me not to take his worries seriously.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@ms1864 I think my husband will be fine as well, but you just never know.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Sep 16
@dodo19 Yeah I am trying my best to stay positive through it all.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@MattMeng We are hoping so. Thank you.
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@MattMeng (3445)
• Hangzhou, China
5 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies You and your husband have a romantic life
@CinnamonGrl (7086)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
2 Sep 16
There's almost always a long wait. I hate the waiting part. It's so much better to know what you are dealing with.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Sep 16
@CinnamonGrl Good grief I wish they would give us an answer already!
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@CinnamonGrl (7086)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
2 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies I hope he's okay, you must be so worried.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
2 Sep 16
@CinnamonGrl I'm worried but I'm fighting with myself on the inside because I don't want to worry. I just want to stay strong and have faith.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Sep 16
@LadyDuck Thank you, I am trying. I hope my positive attitude and faith will help him through.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
3 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies I hope too, you need him and he needs to stay with his family now more than ever.
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
3 Sep 16
My father survived colon cancer twice - it's very curable when caught early. He lived many years after and was never bothered by it again. The first time he had it an ultrasound was the first test he had done and it from there he went to a surgeon. It shouldn't drag on and on. That's not fair to any of you.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@AbbyGreenhill He had many tests done-and it's going from one the hospital doctor to his primary doctor. Apparently that is a forever long process! I wish we would be told something...
@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
5 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies Maybe it depends on how the ins. cos work now days. I know my father went to the doc complaining he couldn't eat certain foods - like gravy/sauces/rich stuff...doc sent him for ultrasound and when he got the results sent my father right to the surgeon. It was fast and he had surgery a few days later. I hope you get results soon, I know it is frustrating to wait.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Sep 16
@JustBhem Yes I understand being busy but we have been waiting for weeks now.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies
I hope your husband gets well in no time.
