How to treat the people who borrow money but never pay it back?

China
September 5, 2016 8:34pm CST
A always borrows money from my roommate B and never pays it back.A often pretended to forget to bring the money,and let B pay for her.but A never pay the money back.and she often using B's things without asking B's permission.so B felt like crying with rage.B thought A was taking advantage of her,Because A does not do this to other people,In fact no one intended to be with her(A). B don't want to offend A but dont want to be a sucker.Then here is the thing,How to treat the people who borrow money but never pay it back?
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@LuciCJ (197)
• Cluj-Napoca, Romania
7 Sep 16
Actually if you always help out somebody with cash, all that you do will be to develop their negative habits. So instead of better managing their expenses, they will know they can always borrow their way out of their financial conundrum. In this case, what I would suggest would be to better give advice and help that person out with her financial problems, instead of offering interest-free money. Because going in debt only postpones the problem, but doesn't solve it. Nonetheless, if it were possible for her to identify the main points where she loses money and she sorted those issues out, maybe she could come on a stable financial level.
• China
11 Sep 16
sorry iam so busy latelyI am sorry did not get back to you on time..Your proposal is very comprehensive and helpful.thank u
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
6 Sep 16
I don't think it's about offending A, because it's B's right to do that. Maybe try to talk to A nicely and say that she needs to use the money?
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• China
6 Sep 16
you are right
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
26 Oct 16
A is doing that to B , because B doesn't complain . But once B realizes that A will keep doing it if he doesn't voice out hid dislike about it , A will always do it . B has to let A know about what he feels about what A is doing . He has to stop A .
• China
26 Oct 16
Now they're not so close.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
26 Oct 16
@mirandalee Of course that's understandable .
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
6 Sep 16
I blacklist them on my list who I'll allow to borrow to me haha
• China
6 Sep 16
you are wise
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
6 Sep 16
@mirandalee Pay first before borrow again haha
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@MattMeng (3445)
• Hangzhou, China
6 Sep 16
It is better not to borrow money to A.
• China
6 Sep 16
There is an old saying "do not offend the villain ",I'm sure you've heard that .i think the most sensible option is to keep a distance from A.but B always wanted to be a nice guy.Sometimes we still need to learn to say no.I dont want to listen to B's complaints.