How They Look Now After 30 Years!

@antonbunot (11093)
Calgary, Alberta
September 7, 2016 8:35pm CST
I was a struggling sales leader for the largest life insurance company (Philippines) when this photo of our four children was taken. The oldest was 9 and the youngest, the girl, was 3. After our family reunion last month, our daughter gave me a copy of this "then-n-now" photo. It makes my heart sing looking at their picture. And, modesty aside, I really feel proud for what my wife and I have done to our 4 children. They love and care for each other. They don't gamble and smoke. They just drink wine on special occasions. And above all, they all graduated from college and have good jobs and happy families. We love them to pieces. Do you have group photos of your kids like this?
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
8 Sep 16
You raised them up very well and you have all the right to be proud . Was that Insular or Philam? I know they are the biggest here.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
Philamlife
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
8 Sep 16
@antonbunot my daughter has educational plan with them, good thing I got it there, I got CAP for my son who is now in college before it went kaput, so now I'm suffering to pay tuition when suppose to be they are the ones paying. Should have gotten from Philam
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
@louievill 35 years ago pre-need companies like PhilamPlans had just started. I think CAP was the first one. Never heard much about Philamlife. The last thing I heard about it was AIG was trying to sell it. Have not visited the Philippines for 25 years . . .
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@toniganzon (72516)
• Philippines
8 Sep 16
I only have one. How lonely. I do have a photo of me and my four siblings when we were kids. I was about a year old then as the youngest. But we don't have a now photo.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
Ah, I saw your photo with your late loving father . . . for sure you were a papa's girl!
@toniganzon (72516)
• Philippines
9 Sep 16
@antonbunot Yes, I was.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Sep 16
@toniganzon . . . I was a mama's boy!
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
8 Sep 16
What lovely photos they both are, you have good reason to be so proud of your children. I don't have a photo like that.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep 16
@antonbunot Really? Is there no end to your talents??
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Sep 16
@jaboUK Hahaha! I was born poor. My late mother was just a housekeeper. My late father was a lowly janitor. My only sister and I had each just a pair of shoes and few clothes to wear when we were in the elementary grades. That may be the reason why I tried to learn things by myself. In high school I learned how to draw and paint by watching a local artist. That was how I learned how to draw and paint and eventually became a sign artist (painting signboards). That helped me a lot financially while in college. I befriended an old professional photographer. After graduating from college (Bachelor of Arts) at age 20, I worked as an office clerk for an insurance company. I bought my first SLR Nikkon camera. Eventually, I bought my first darkroom enlarger and started learning how to develop films and print pictures. When I felt I was ready to start a photo-n-art business, I quit my clerical job. It was a combination of photography and art (photography, painting, signboard-making, and t-shirt printing.) All of these I learned by myself. Maybe if my parents were well-to-do, I would have not have the inclination to learn these things when I was young. God may have given me this artistic talent (painting and photography) because my late mother and father were poor but religious/pious. My late mother used to attend mass everyday. And when we moved to Canada with my young family, I raised our 4 children the way my parents raised me. I was a bit strict on them but showed how much I cared and loved them.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
@jaboUK . . I was also a professional photographer when our children were small . . . so, they have lots of pictures when they were kids.
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@JudyEv (341824)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Sep 16
That's a lovely photo - and you and your wife have every right to be proud. It is lovely to family photos like this.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Sep 16
@JudyEv No, if you got married when you were 20, you are just 65 now . . not old!
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
@JudyEv Thanks, my friend. You have children, too?
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@JudyEv (341824)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Sep 16
@antonbunot We have two sons - one in Melbourne, Australia and one in Ireland. The one in Ireland is married but his wife won't fly and they can't have children. The son in Melbourne is not married. I can't believe they are 44 and 42 - that makes me very old!!!
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
8 Sep 16
I don't have kids yet. Hihihi And I don't have picture of me and my siblings now that we are older.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
@brokenbee hehehe! Well, our 4 children are very close to each other. Most likely because their age-gaps are so close. In the lower picture they were 7,6,5, and 3! In fact, the oldest is only 11 months older than the second. Kasla armalite a pomarotopot ti styleko idi! (English translation: I was like an armalite when I was young!)
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Sep 16
@brokenbee LOL Almost but No.4 did not push through because my porotopot did not hit the target.
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
9 Sep 16
@antonbunot ahahahahaha! You should have made it 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, and 1... LOL
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
8 Sep 16
Congratulations to you and to your wife for raising such wonderful children. They are your treasures.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
Thank you, @acelawrites . . . you have kids?
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
@acelawrites Unico hijo? Habla espanggol tambien?! Yo hablo y escribo espanggol consultura. Aprendi el lenguaje en el seminaryo. And here I polished my Spanish by speaking to Spanish and latin co-workers.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
8 Sep 16
@antonbunot yes, only one son! Unico hijo.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Sep 16
no as we lost our little girl when she was 8 and our son was a gifted student so went to a private school for such my photos of the two together are really precious as we did not have lisa rose for many years,.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Sep 16
@antonbunot he has had his ups and downs but he is good at his job
@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
12 Sep 16
@Hatley Wow, your son must be very successful in his chosen career!
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
13 Sep 16
That look lovely indeed . You can really compare how they look now compared to that picture of them . I commend you and your wife for raising them well . I can really feel your pride just talking about them .
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
30 Sep 16
Thanks!
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• Austin, Texas
9 Sep 16
I have group photos of when they were young. It's hard to get them all together these days to get another group photo. Love those pics! Thanks for sharing.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Sep 16
I also have taken their pictures when they were in their teens . . Let me see if I could find it.
@1creekgirl (41692)
• United States
30 Sep 16
What a lovely family! I'm sure you're very proud of them.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
30 Sep 16
Modesty aside, my wife and I are!
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• United States
8 Sep 16
Nope. Only have one, and she moved to another state where life is cheaper.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
@ElizabethWallace I hope she visits you often. Maybe you have grandchildren. We got 7.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Sep 16
@ElizabethWallace Loving and caring grandma!
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• United States
9 Sep 16
@antonbunot She has no money for travel. I have two grandsons. Before they moved away, we saw each other often, and I took them on trips in the summer. Bummer.
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
9 Sep 16
Wow! You're really a great father and your family is so blessed. I have some photos of my three daughters too.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Sep 16
@Macarrossel You think so?! hehehe . . O, you look great in your profile photo! I guess the vitamins, minerals, calcium, magnesium, uranium you got from that monkey-meat-adobo, you ate, are still working in your body.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
10 Sep 16
i have, i have, since he was still an infant, i already took pics of him and me.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Sep 16
@ridingbet Just one child? O, he must have been pampered when he was small!
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
15 Sep 16
@antonbunot he is a Mama's boy. hahahaha! precisely because he is alone.
@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
8 Sep 16
Lovely photos,im sure the kids are proud of you too.And you too have a reason to be proud.I dont remember the last time l took family photo,ages ago.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
@miniam . . . July 7 is their mom's birthday . . so, a family reunion is always held on her birthday . . and the greatest show on earth (Stampede) is also held on July here in Calgary.
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• Fujian, China
8 Sep 16
Our childhood picture is really not much.But now I often make up my daughter's photo.I wait for her to grow up, I will be with her memories.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
I was also a professional photographer when our children were young . . that is why they have lots of pictures when they were young.
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
4 Oct 16
Oh lovely photo! .. It shows how well they are raised .. Congrats to you and your wife!
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
8 Sep 16
Handsome kids.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
@sol_cee Thanks!
@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
8 Sep 16
Oh..I got many. Place is not sufficient.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
@rina110383 (24492)
8 Sep 16
I had 1 photo with 3 of my siblings. I think it was taken a decade ago.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
You love to see the transformation . . .
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@me2selah (37)
• Cebu, Philippines
8 Sep 16
Those are beautiful photos of your children. I loved to take a photo of our children too while they are still young. We have 3 girls! Ages 4, 2 and 1 month. :)
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
8 Sep 16
O, they must be 3 beautiful girls . . . Cebuana ladies are beautiful like Ate Pilita Corrales!
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