Does Intimacy leads to conflicts?

@shubhu3 (36463)
New Delhi, India
September 9, 2016 8:18am CST
The more we are close to someone , the more we people start expecting from that person which sometimes leads to conflicts.There can many other reasons as well, like if we don't like something and tell that then may be the other take it in a negative way, generation gap can also lead to conflict,lack of communication also can provoke a conflict. In my life usually there are conflicts between me and my mother where in usually I don't understand her point of view which is wrong. But then gradually I realize and the conflict gets resolved. What do you think? Have you ever experienced conflicts with people you have strong bonding with?
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@LadyDuck (472124)
• Switzerland
9 Sep 16
Yes, of course, it happens but it's not something negative.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
10 Sep 16
Yeah if handled in a mature way it is very healthy.It enhances the intimacy.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
9 Sep 16
Conflicts make relationships stronger.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
10 Sep 16
Yeah conflicts also breeds intimacy.
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
10 Sep 16
@shubhu3 Oh yeah. Even more intimate after a conflict.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
10 Sep 16
@sol_cee Yeah exactly.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
9 Sep 16
There is an old saying " familiarity breeds contempt"
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
10 Sep 16
Yeah I have heard of it.But the way one handles decides the course of it.
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
11 Sep 16
yeah....there are conflicts in everyone's lives....I hate them to some extent...usually are in between me and mum....
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
12 Sep 16
Yeah yet they increase the intimacy as well.
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• Kolkata, India
9 Sep 16
Shubhu knows that better...i guess !!
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
10 Sep 16
Heheh yeah.
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@7864aru (170)
• Pune, India
10 Sep 16
With my mother, never till the date. Yes there are differences in views, but we have mutual respect for each other & most important patience so the relation rocks...
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
10 Sep 16
This is beautiful.Stay like this always.
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• United States
14 Sep 16
Yes of course conflicts can occur but we need to get thru it! :)
@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
14 Sep 16
Yeah exactly.They make us grow in our relationships as well by becoming more insightful.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
9 Sep 16
I think its not really leading but just normal happening.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
10 Sep 16
Yeah you are right.