Love or arrange marraige?

@7864aru (170)
Pune, India
September 12, 2016 1:43am CST
I consider love marriage is best & its always better to spend a life with a known person than completely stranger. In india, mostly arrange marriage are done for dowry. Money is spend as water in marriage. People often take loan for that !!!! Love marriage is the best as its best upon mutual understanding & trust & not on social status or money.
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@skysnap (20153)
12 Sep 16
I think arrange marriage is basically business transaction for people who never found love in life :P harsh but truth.. i mean like seriously.. woman chooses man based on his salary and man chooses woman based on her looks.. so business transaction.... love marriages can be like that too.. but most of the love marriages happen because of love.. i said most :D
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@7864aru (170)
• Pune, India
13 Sep 16
Love marriage are still better than business transection.
@skysnap (20153)
13 Sep 16
@7864aru I don't know if you noticed this or not but as an Indian male, I noticed that for males both love and arrange marriage are only possible if they have money.. women don't choose us if we are low earners in india..our selection happens on money. so it's always business transaction for males.
@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
12 Sep 16
I'm German and live in Germany. I have nothing to say on the topic as we don't have arranged marriages.
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@7864aru (170)
• Pune, India
13 Sep 16
Cool country. In India concept of marriage is very different. People want lavish arrange marriage. Dowry of car/ flat. 60- 70 gm gold and so on..
@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
12 Sep 16
Yeah I feel the same.Love marriage is preferable by me as well.
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
12 Sep 16
I didn't prefer any of them....for tme the very concept of marriage is ridiculous.
@mavlana (1019)
• India
13 Sep 16
@7864aru yeah....I am in love but my love don't need any so called relation....for me....Marriage is bondage of earth and love is freedom of sky.
@7864aru (170)
• Pune, India
13 Sep 16
@mavlana, so u prefer live in relationship?
@7864aru (170)
• Pune, India
13 Sep 16
In india either you married or you aren't. There is 'mostly'(99%) no concept of live in relationship. So marriage is the only option if you are in love.
@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
12 Sep 16
i couldn't agree more.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Sep 16
Definitely love or arranged. I can't even imagine having to marry somebody that I don't even know or don't even love.
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