Being nice doesnt always make people want to be nice to you

@Inyia1 (26)
Nairobi, Kenya
September 13, 2016 7:15am CST
Am not saying don't be nice. Please by all means be nice to people but don't go over the rails when ill treated by someone you went out of your way to be nice to. some people are just not good no matter how good you are to them
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@Jenny_09 (51)
• Ranchi, India
13 Sep 16
This is the rule of life that we have to accept...atleast this behaviour of people helps us to explore n experience different people...!
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@Inyia1 (26)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Sep 16
its not easy though
• Ranchi, India
14 Sep 16
@Inyia1 ...yes..its difficult..obviously....but never underestimate yourself and always encourage yourself by saying that you can do it
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Sep 16
I do my best to be nice to everybody. I will not stoop to the level of the person who chooses not to be nice. I was brought up to respect others and to always look for the good in people.
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
13 Sep 16
i agree. you can't change people only they can
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@Deepizzaguy (102040)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
14 Sep 16
At least plant the seed.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
14 Sep 16
@Deepizzaguy Sometimes it feels like there are a lot of weeds growing.
@Inyia1 (26)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Sep 16
@Deepizzaguy how does that work
@JudyEv (338625)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Sep 16
You are quite right. You can only treat people the way you want to. It is up to them how they respond.
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@Deepizzaguy (102040)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
14 Sep 16
True. Some people only change when they get a kick in the behind for acting like know it alls,
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@Inyia1 (26)
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Sep 16
i like how you put it
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@Deepizzaguy (102040)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
14 Sep 16
Especially some celebs who think their perfume does not smell. I mean I have tweeted some of them "Good job" for an acting role or music show and they do not reply back so I came up with the punchline "I guess they are busy putting tigers in their tanks." Never try it at home though.
@Deepizzaguy (102040)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
15 Sep 16
@Inyia1 Too bad they could not copy the example of the late Donna Summer who said something like"I never wanted to forget where I came from, the pain and suffering to become successful. Ever."
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@Inyia1 (26)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Sep 16
haha. i hate it when celebs let fame get to their heads
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@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
14 Sep 16
It's true. We can't really expect people to treat us nicely even if we treat them well. As long as we remained kind to everyone, we know we're doing things right and proper.
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@Ritu96 (897)
• Sonipat, India
13 Sep 16
yes....i have been nice to people but still they behave bad
@Inyia1 (26)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Sep 16
i know the feeling. i have gone out of my way to be nice to people and the moment i needed them they treated me with disdain
@QueenAva (765)
• Nicosia, Cyprus
14 Sep 16
Yeb that is true